Never fucked anyone to orgasm?

[Scott8361]

I am 63 and can admit I never fucked anyone to an orgasm. I was married for 20 years, and now in a 14 year relationship with a woman. I never experienced fucking anyone where they reached orgasm from my cock. While they enjoyed the physical connection, and me reaching orgasm and depositing my seed in them, they never has an orgasm while we fucked.

I always had to bring my partners to orgasm using oral, my fingers, and external clitoral stimulation, sometimes using vibrators... never from my cock.... or even while my cock was inside them.

Sometimes I reflect on that and feel inadequate. I always sensed my cock lacked sufficient girth or stamina to have any chance at seeing my partner in the ecstacy of orgasm.

Anybody else ever go through life never giving a partner an orgasm with their cock?

 

[mushroomcap]

It’s seems unlikely that it’s your size that is the problem. While I haven’t been with as many women as many of the guys here, I know that I’ve brought most to orgasm during intercourse with my penis that’s about the same size or maybe smaller than yours. Do you communicate during sex to find out what’s working and what isn’t? Are you going long enough because women just take longer. Is there adequate foreplay and are you switching from foreplay to fucking at the appropriate times?

Of course there are women who just don’t orgasm from insertion. Maybe your women haven’t been in touch enough with their own bodies to be able to orgasm.
Good luck to you!

 

[Scott8361]

It’s seems unlikely that it’s your size that is the problem. While I haven’t been with as many women as many of the guys here, I know that I’ve brought most to orgasm during intercourse with my penis that’s about the same size or maybe smaller than yours. Do you communicate during sex to find out what’s working and what isn’t? Are you going long enough because women just take longer. Is there adequate foreplay and are you switching from foreplay to fucking at the appropriate times?

Of course there are women who just don’t orgasm from insertion. Maybe your women haven’t been in touch enough with their own bodies to be able to orgasm.
Good luck to you!

I have only really fucked two women in my life..

My wife of 20 years definitely had hangups about sex and didn't know her body, but there definitely was a fit issue as well...her pussy was wide and loose and my thin dick was list inside her. She even told me she wished I was thicker.

My current partner needs direct clitoral stimulation, firm and hard, and at times very vigorous! I could see a cock needing a LOT of rigid girth to provide the pressure she takes, and a lot of continuous vigorous, pounding thrusting!

She would try riding on top and work her pelvis forward and back so wildly to get the stimulation she was looking for. It started to hurt so bad I thought she was going to break my cock! My thin pecker didn't have the structural strength to take it! I'd lose my erection because of the discomfort!

 

[Rooker]

Make foreplay last longer.

 

[mushroomcap]

I have only really fucked two women in my life..

My wife of 20 years definitely had hangups about sex and didn't know her body, but there definitely was a fit issue as well...her pussy was wide and loose and my thin dick was list inside her. She even told me she wished I was thicker.

My current partner needs direct clitoral stimulation, firm and hard, and at times very vigorous! I could see a cock needing a LOT of rigid girth to provide the pressure she takes, and a lot of continuous vigorous, pounding thrusting!

She would try riding on top and work her pelvis forward and back so wildly to get the stimulation she was looking for. It started to hurt so bad I thought she was going to break my cock! My thin pecker didn't have the structural strength to take it! I'd lose my erection because of the discomfort!

I hear you. My current partner also needs intense clitoral stimulation. Plus she is not a huge fan of oral or finger play. There is no way I can go fast enough while in her to get her to finish. And masturbation and toys are also out. So it is what it is.
My first wife was similar to yours after our second baby. We eventually got into fisting and I could bring her to several orgasms that way. Also, in certain positions, I was long enough to hit her g-spot and even flick her cervix which she found very stimulating which would bring her to orgasm. Unfortunately, between her large vagina and extreme wetness, I could barely feel anything and often couldn’t cum.

 

[Scott8361]

I hear you. My current partner also needs intense clitoral stimulation. Plus she is not a huge fan of oral or finger play. There is no way I can go fast enough while in her to get her to finish. And masturbation and toys are also out. So it is what it is.
My first wife was similar to yours after our second baby. We eventually got into fisting and I could bring her to several orgasms that way. Also, in certain positions, I was long enough to hit her g-spot and even flick her cervix which she found very stimulating which would bring her to orgasm. Unfortunately, between her large vagina and extreme wetness, I could barely feel anything and often couldn’t cum.

Sounds like we've experienced some similar relationships! I just think it would be so fulfilling to experience my partner orgasm while I'm fucking her!

 

[mushroomcap]

I agree that it’s a wonderful experience. But unless you cheat, it doesn’t sound like it’s going to happen. Next best is to make them orgasm by other means. She will appreciate it and it’s still an extremely satisfying experience for the guy.

 

[Scott8361]

I agree that it’s a wonderful experience. But unless you cheat, it doesn’t sound like it’s going to happen. Next best is to make them orgasm by other means. She will appreciate it and it’s still an extremely satisfying experience for the guy.

I already do give my girlfriend orgasms with fingers directly working her clit. It definitely is satisfying to get her off!

I can get her in a zone to where she will have multiple huge orgasms... screaming, primal grunting, body spasming and writhing... leaves her exhausted! It's incredibly rewarding for me! It would just be great to have my cock part of it!

 

[mushroomcap]

Have you two tried anal yet? I had two gf’s between my marriages that absolutely loved receiving it in the ass. Both would cum every time at least once. The whole taboo aspect of it was a huge turn on for both of them. And it works best with a penis that’s not really thick!!

 

[Gepflegterxxl]

I have similar experiences. It changed since I use a sleeve. So my cock becomes longer (to reach her AFE-zone) as well as to stretch her labia more, which exposes her clit more.

 

[Gepflegterxxl]

Have you two tried anal yet? I had two gf’s between my marriages that absolutely loved receiving it in the ass. Both would cum every time at least once. The whole taboo aspect of it was a huge turn on for both of them. And it works best with a penis that’s not really thick!!

With the sleeve I have about 8.5 inches length and 7.5 inches girth. I never felt such a strong orgasmic contraction of her pussy while I was deeply in her pussy ….

 

[Scott8361]

Have you two tried anal yet? I had two gf’s between my marriages that absolutely loved receiving it in the ass. Both would cum every time at least once. The whole taboo aspect of it was a huge turn on for both of them. And it works best with a penis that’s not really thick!!

No, my girlfriend has made it clear her butt hole is off limits! But she enjoys ravaging mine! Has even fisted me!

 

[Scott8361]

I have similar experiences. It changed since I use a sleeve. So my cock becomes longer (to reach her AFE-zone) as well as to stretch her labia more, which exposes her clit more.

My girlfriend doesn't want anything big in her. I have a sense extra girth would apply more stimulation to her clitoral structures, but she is too delicate being post menopause.

I definitely felt my ex would have enjoyed a big sleeve on me! But she was very vanilla and never was open to any toys at all. Her loss... she wasn't open to exploring her potential!

 

[JD__OL992]

Just once and honestly I don't know what I did.

 

[dickthrobbing]

My girl friend always cums many times when I fuck her, its a really great feeling as her whole body shudders

 

[Scott8361]

My girl friend always cums many times when I fuck her, its a really great feeling as her whole body shudders

Lucky guy! What does it take? Time, position, technique, angle, size?

 

[Gepflegterxxl]

Lucky guy! What does it take? Time, position, technique, angle, size?

You’re so right! I would like to know it also. I guess one thing is very important: size matters that was my experience. beside size: some studies describe also that the distance between the entrance of the pussy and her clit shouldn’t be too large, a short distance makes it easier for her to cum just by a penetrating penis and stimulating the clit.

 

[cofrader]

I am 63 and can admit I never fucked anyone to an orgasm. I was married for 20 years, and now in a 14 year relationship with a woman. I never experienced fucking anyone where they reached orgasm from my cock. While they enjoyed the physical connection, and me reaching orgasm and depositing my seed in them, they never has an orgasm while we fucked.

I always had to bring my partners to orgasm using oral, my fingers, and external clitoral stimulation, sometimes using vibrators... never from my cock.... or even while my cock was inside them.

Sometimes I reflect on that and feel inadequate. I always sensed my cock lacked sufficient girth or stamina to have any chance at seeing my partner in the ecstacy of orgasm.

Anybody else ever go through life never giving a partner an orgasm with their cock?

There are woman who never orgasm from penetration.
If you last enough for her it's fine, ask her, use her input.
I don't have that problem but before ever having sex with a woman i trained myself to know my point of no return adapt and last longer.
Never got complains on that department