Never had a boyfriend?

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  1. Smaccoms

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    How many other people have never been in a relationship before, I want to see who can beat out. I recently turned 20 and never had a boyfriend, so thats my record (my university has 20,000 undergraduates so, wheres everyone else at?
     
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    Heh, I got you beat by 23 years. A few members have gone even longer. It's not a record I suggest you pursue.
     
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    aaaaawwwww, I thought I was something special, I just thought I'd throw something out there. It's not like I TRY not to get a bf, I've just never met someone suitable who I wanted to g out with who wanted to go out with me, except for one guy, but he's in denial and he doesnt want to talk to me right now so. But yea, thats life :) haha
     
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    Never had a boyfriend. Want one, but no luck as of yet.
     
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    29 no boyfriend. Never really wanted one before, I think that's beginning to change. I think I would be open to a relationship, I'm just not gonna rush into anything.
     
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    I'm almost 25 and I've never had a boyfriend =(

    I am accepting applications though.
     
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    I've never had a boyfriend either. I would like one though. You have me beat by a few months.
     
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    31 here, never had a boyfriend either. Many reasons why I guess, but I remain hopeful and have an eager eye out for my big wolfie. :)
     
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    Heh, I am only 19, I came close to having a boyfriend, but my interest decided to forget I existed and date someone else. I had to find this out via Facebook. Needless to say, I was pissed.
     
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    I was 45 when I got my first real BF. Though I'd had a wonderful regular "gentleman caller" for over ten years before that.
     
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    3 Boyfriends in my teen days..
     
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    If you are in your early or mid 40s and have never had a relationship or a boyfriend there's a reason for that and I feel bad for you.
     
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    I know the thread was asking about boyfriends
    but I'm 37 and never had a girlfriend.

    A lot of you said that you've never had boyfriends
    but I doubt any of you are virgins or haven't already
    had your first kiss.
     
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    I have never had boyfriend and im 26 also
    i am currently accepting applications for anyone who is intrested
    if u want too see my picture its on my myspace page
     
  15. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Never had one. Never will (I'm straight! :p) so apologies for the hijack, but never had a gf either.
    Hmmm, at 27 I'm about 10 years behind you. Maybe you just need a lifestyle change. I'm losing shitloads of weight and gaining comfidence and the ladies seem to notice.

    Of course, that's more for "you cannot have" motivation than any improvement.
     
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    Its true I'm nto a virgin, and I have had my first kiss, it was real. The guy really liked me, and I really liked him. It kinda felt like dynamite. Ireall miss him. It never worked out, never went anywhere, but I'm glad to have at least experienced kissing someone who felt seriously about me...
     
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    Don't bemoan the fact you've not had a bf. It's not all it's cracked up to be. It can be a great source of joy, but you also risk the pain of a bad relationship.
     
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    Well,at least you've had your first kiss and some experience.Some of us haven't been that lucky.

    You know the old saying ? Better to have
    loved & lost...than never have loved at all.

    You being someone who's been there...do
    find that its true ?

    I hope everything works out for you in
    the future;good luck,man.
     
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    Let's see, now--I'm trying hard to figure this out. Your Profile says that you're 100% straight--but now you claim to have had three boyfriends...??? :confused: Have you perhaps undergone a miracle "cure" since then...??? If so, is that why on another thread you keep badmouthing gays and pelting them with chunks of "religious" wit and wisdom...? ---Curiouser and curiouser......................
     
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    Hardly a cure. To go from gay to straight would be a curse!:tongue:
     
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