Never had a guy go soft

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Reading another post made me think about this. I've never had a guy loose his erection with me. I mean you see this all the time as a cultural reference and such - but it has genuinely never happened in my presence.

In fact - I've never had that many girlfriends tell me about it happening with them either. I've had maybe a few gay friends mention their partners having problems - but sod all really (forgive the pun).
well, it would be easier to forgive if I knewd what the heck 'sod all really' translated over into in AmericanEnglush.

Have I been lucky? Am I that hawt? :wink:
Yes~~to both questions.

Does this happen all the time? How do you, women and gay guys, react to it when it does?
It doesn't happen all the time--if it did there'd never be any sex and therefore a vast reduction in fun. I tend not to overthink it when it happens to anothere and I don't get too worked up over it when it happens to me. For myself, I just look at my videos of George Lucas, Sean Connery and several others in the celebrity orgy olympics and the feeling returns and soon I am ready to go again. When it happens to a man I am with, I focus in on other body parts and many times that gets them stiffened up again, at which point the fun resumes. Bottom line, if the penis goes soft (either his or mine) or through the tragedy of e.d. never makes it to stiffity, there are other ways to keep things exciting. Nipple play, toe sucking, ass massages, ear nibbling~~the list is endless~~
 

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Well being a guy of 25 I have had a bit (not heaps) of practice and even absolutely drunk like cant stand up drunk I can still get a hardon and retain it until the end of the game. I have never lost an erection while I was using it or needing it and neither have any of my partners. So I think some guys have issues with it but most dont.
Every little twerp of 25 thinks that.

If they live long enough, they eventually realize just how myopic they were back when they were young & dumb.
 

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well, it would be easier to forgive if I knewd what the heck 'sod all really' translated over into in AmericanEnglush.

My profuse apologies O: 'sod all' means none or very few / very little - 'sod' is also short for sodomite.

Yes~~to both questions.
Thought so, and thank you - in that order

It doesn't happen all the time--if it did there'd never be any sex and therefore a vast reduction in fun. I tend not to overthink it when it happens to anothere and I don't get too worked up over it when it happens to me. For myself, I just look at my videos of George Lucas, Sean Connery and several others in the celebrity orgy olympics and the feeling returns and soon I am ready to go again. When it happens to a man I am with, I focus in on other body parts and many times that gets them stiffened up again, at which point the fun resumes. Bottom line, if the penis goes soft (either his or mine) or through the tragedy of e.d. never makes it to stiffity, there are other ways to keep things exciting. Nipple play, toe sucking, ass massages, ear nibbling~~the list is endless~~

Thank you - I hope if/when this does happen with me that I can emulate your attitude and resourcefulness.
 

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Sounds like you're looking for a first-time experience of a guy going soft on you ... I think I could help you out. :wink: :tongue:
 

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I had a guy go soft once. He was an older man. He just had a little trouble, but we worked on it and eventually he worked it out. I just didn't make a big deal of it and started blowing him real intensely..we were both drunk, so who knows, maybe that was the problem?
 

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It happens to all of us from time to time. I know that the times when I REALLY want to climax the most, can be the times when it just won't happen.

This happens to guys from time to time, especially when they're worried about being able to please their lovers. The brain IS the largest sex organ, and if a guy begins to worry instead of enjoying the experience, they know that losing the erection is a possibility, which can become a self fulfilling prophesy. And their best buddy fails them.

When it happens, just slow down, kiss him deeply and lovingly as you stroke him gently, then whisper to him, "There's no hurry. We have all the time in the world, just relax and let me do a few things for you, Baby."

If and when even that fails, [and if you live long enough, it will] kiss him and shrug philosophically and say, "Well, that just means we have 24 hours of all sorts of foreplay until tomorrow night!" And smile.
 

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With my body image issues, and the fact that I have been involved with more than one man with ED (one with severe ED), makes me wonder if I'm just not sexually desirable at all. I know logically that's not necessarily the case (both guys in question have medical problems), but there's that voice in the back of my head saying "It's because you're not pretty enough" and stuff.

I'm actually amazed if a guy does get hard when I'm with him, even to this day. Just to think that I "caused" that is a real rush. Again, I think it's my body image insecurities talking there too - the fact that I'm actually amazed over that rather than just thinking it's a normal part of life.
 

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I've gone soft on one girl once...but I was really pissed, we both were. So that's understandable. One girl I couldn't get it up for, but I had sex with her anyway...with a soft or at best semi-hard cock. I didn't ejaculate semen. But I did ejaculate my stomach contents :biggrin1:

That was some bad sex hehe.
 

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I've gone soft on one girl once...but I was really pissed, we both were. So that's understandable. One girl I couldn't get it up for, but I had sex with her anyway...with a soft or at best semi-hard cock. I didn't ejaculate semen. But I did ejaculate my stomach contents :biggrin1:

That was some bad sex hehe.

Oh I've had guys able to fuck but not cum. That's not really the same tho', is it?

Most memorably my best friend's little brother :eek: - horny, scared 18 y.o.s can be such fun. He got his, eventually.
 

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This actually happened to me recently.

Alcohol played a large roll. It being in my system and it wanting to leave my system. Probably should have pissed before we started. :/ I didn't have any issues as long as I was using it, but as soon as I switched to an oral game I went soft. After she orgasmed she promptly help me back up, And we continued on our way.

I also noticed that when I'm exhausted I have the opposite problem. I have to really concentrate on my orgasm or it will never come.

The human body is such an oddity.