Never had anal sex b4...

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  1. michael555

    michael555 New Member

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    I'm 26 years old and I have yet to succesfully have anal sex. I don't know if it's the girls I'm with or what. My one ex g/f was a thick big booty italian girl and it just wasn't happening. I couldn't fit. My next g/f was this tiny little blonde and I tried it one night when we're drunk and she jumped up so quick and just burst into tears. (Terrible experience) My g/f now is the one most experienced with anal and when I got just the tip in she told me "Nope this isn't happening." So I am confused. I've tried it with different sized girls and girls with experience and I still haven't been able to. Perhaps I just haven't met the right girl yet.
     
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    a girl told me once that she tried anal sex and never tried it again for 2 reasons:

    1. it makes you feel like you have to take a big shit
    2. it's painful and messy
    3. it just doesn't feel right at all....

    not all girls feel this way, but i've found through talking with folks about it (after a few drinks) that anal sex is a fetish.... you either like it or you don't.... i would suggest that in future relationships, get the anal question out of the way early on.... it will save you a LOT of awkward experiences....
     
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    Are you sure you're still not under influence of those drinks?
     
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    I was about your age when I first had anal. My girlfriend at the time was really tall (5'11", just an inch shorter than I), had a really round butt, and plenty of experience. Even with her, it was a lot of work to get in the first time. We tried for months without success, and it finally happened after about 30 minutes of rimming and half a bottle of swiss navy.

    My girlfriend now is an anal virgin, except for one misstep where she was on top of another guy, he quickly slipped out and went back in to her butt (she gets really wet), and she said it hurt like hell so now she's afraid of it. I've been trying for a while to train her up to the task (playing with her butt while eating her out; sticking the occasional finger up there after fucking her, etc.) but I'm honestly not sure she'd ever be up for it. I think my best hope is a lot of alcohol to get her loosened up enough.
     
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    Hah the funny thing is that's my g/f's answer to the problem. She's all like just get me drunk we'll do it than.
     
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    @srk: #3 was an afterthought.... just forgot to change the number..... thank goodness for the edit button.... i just wish i could use it after people have responded.....
     
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    Op don't feel bad man...I've tried countless times with just about ALL my gf's....with no luck. I'm just convinced it's not meant to be for me :( Sadly enough its one of my BIGGEST fetishes!!!!
     
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    ROFLAO.....Like all you people have G/F's
     
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    I Loled.

    Get her drunk if she's willing.

    Making a girl cum from anal will put a look on her face like "LOL WTF ORGASM" and it is priceless the first time.
     
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    first don't do it when you are drunk second the girl your with will want to have anal sex. Communication, lube, lube and more lube and going slow so the anus can has time to accomodate a penis.
     
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    If were all adults here why are a few drinks bad? Especially if it leads to a more open sexuality?
     
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    being drunk means you are impaired and thus harm can come.
     
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    Lol under. 08
     
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    it is safer without booze invovled
     
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    . . .And telling them to douche MIGHT help -_-
     
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    I have only had anal with one girlfriend. Every few months she would get in the mood and say stick it in my ass. After about 15 or more strokes she would say ok please take it out. Plenty of lube is needed.

    There is no feeling like it, as your cock is in a tight flesh tube which grips every inch.
     
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    you only need to was your anus and the odd enema is ok but to many enema's destroy the good bacteria in the intestines and thus makes digesting food harder.
     
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    Meh, whatever. I believe that's a personal and lifestyle choice, but you're certainly spot on about the lube. :)
     
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    anal sex is a lifestyle? lol
     
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    Hahaha sorry I post from a droid and sometimes it takes a little while for a post to actually get posted.
     
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