Never masturbated in his life

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    Okay, so I was with this group of guys and we were talking about porn and masturbating. Well, a friend of mine was really silent and so I was like, "you never mention masturbating, why not?" And he says, "Well, I didn't want to say anything, but I just never really started doing that" And I couldn't believe it. He was 22 and had never masturbated in his life!!!! I was like, what the fuck how is that possible? And catch this--he DOES look at porn! So I said, what do you do when you're done looking at porn--and he just shrugged. He's engaged to be married soon......wonder what the hell his wedding night will be like.

    CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS??????
     
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    maybe he has a micro, nothing to pull on.

    No, I don't believe it.
     
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    Yeah....the funny thing is, all the other guys in the group admitted to masturbating, so it wasn't like he was just refusing to admit it out of embarrassment or anything.
     
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    Is he from a supremely religious background? Are there any reasons this would be extremely taboo for him? To do or to admit to doing.

    Perhaps on the wedding night they'll have a rousing game of Mah Jongg.
     
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    No, none of that....not taboo. He went to a REALLY liberal college, too.

    The story he gave me was just that he never got started--didn't hear about it, didn't experiment, didn't know he could do it, whatever......just never started.
     
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    Has he ever taken any anti-depressant drugs or maybe I'm thinking of the drug for ADD.

    There's a small group of drugs that for many years now have been popular to put school kids on for this and that and a side effect of many of them is extremely low libido....even for a few years After they quit taking them....and they are now in their early 20's.

    Just no sex drive almost at all.
    What a sad thing.

    Wish I could remember where I saw an article about this.
    If I find it, I'll bring it over.
     
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    It is possible that the guy just doesn't have the urge to masturbate. I mean, there are women who claim to not have masturbated before, why not men??

    Perhaps, he lived in a larger family, and didn't get alot of "alone" time. Perhaps he is just not interested in sex because he has other things on his mind.

    It has nothing to do with ADD or depression or anything like that.
     
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    Hey I am kinda new here, but I am trying to participate more!

    That said----When I was about 14 my friend Steve told me if a guy doesn't get off his balls explode---I am now 40 and on some level still believe that statement--JMHO!
     
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    After all why not! My current GF doesn't masturbate. he had a very active sexual life with many partners and had a 2 years break and didn't ever maturbated, simply because she sees no interests into it. She finds it dull and not fun.

    Why not men?
     
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    A friend of mine, age 45, says that he has never masturbated, and he has gone through some long dry spells what with being married, divorce and waiting to find a good woman to spend time with. He says that he only gets erect is in her presence. He does have strong religious beliefs and is the most honest person I have ever met. He does not have a micro-penis, he has never measured but he has to use two of Seymour Butts "Not Too Deep" donuts so he doesn't punch his girlfriends lights out.
     
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    wow, i guess that cud happen but wow its 2 much fun not 2...
     
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    I would guess he just has a low sex drive. Otherwise he would be emptying out from time to time via wet dreams, wouldn't he?

    Also, some men just don't have a very developed visual imagination, which - for most of us - contributes greatly to our sex lives, either as a trigger or as a stimulant.

    Sad, though isn't it: at 22 he's missed about 10 years of orgasms. @ an average of once a day that's something like 15 hrs 20 minutes of orgasm he'll never get to experience !
     
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    Most human behaviors fall somewhere within the realm of normalcy, and your friend is ceratinly not abnormal not ever to have masturbated. I can't help wondering, though, what has motivated this. Any male with normal testosterone levels pops woodies. Is this some sort of self-imposed spiritual mission that trumps Nature's stimuli? His conversation sounds a bit evasive to me. His sex life doesn't sound too promising either. Somehow I don't see him getting sweaty and hot and adventuresome in the bedroom with his wife if he won't even beat off.
     
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    I actually just started like last year, believe it or not. Growing up, I didn't have a lot of privacy, and I had not so high self-esteem, so I didn't really 'turn myself on,' as my friends explain it. I'd looked at porn, I'd thought about it, and ventured out some nights, but I never finished, just because I was afraid I'd get caught or soemthing horrible would happen. I dunno, maybe I'm just weird?
     
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    Perhaps he could claim them back in one lump sum? Would certainly be an interesting way to spend a day
     
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    I'm reminded of that quote from my Sociology 101 class: "98% of men masturbate; the other 2% lie."
     
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    At boarding school we had 5 man dormitories. One guy who was a big sports-man caimed to never have masturbated. Gees was I surprised when he, hopped into my bed around the 2nd or 3rd week of school. "So where did you have your first blowjob!"
     
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    my friend Ben is 27, is still a virgin, and the only time he has masturbated (to hear him tell it) was once when the doctor needed a semen sample because of some testicular problem he was having. He claims it took him over an hour because he didn't know what he was doing.
     
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    I have a friend who was the same way. When we were freshmen in highschool, we had much the same conversation. He wasn't ignorant of what masturbation is, or how to do it -- he just said he tried it once and he didn't like it.

    I should add that he went on to become one of the great cocksmen in highschool, so apparently soon thereafter he didn't need masturbation as a sexual outlet.
     
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    :rolleyes: How much practice does he need? Some things just come naturally.
     
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