I'm from Northern Ireland, and have lived with the feelings that Americans have had since 9/11 my entire life. And you know what? I'm 30, and I missed the worst of it. Even so, I know people who have lost people to the troubles. I was with a friend when she found out her dad had been shot by the IRA. I know every Christmas that if I go Christmas shopping, i run a pretty much 50/50 chance that I'm going to end up in the middle of a bomb scare.
And no, freedom is not a price that can be paid. If you do that, even a little, they win.
I know that 9/11 was a big shock. It was without a doubt the largest terrorist attack ever. However, in NI, we've lost more people than that (and our entire population is only 1.5 million), but over 40 years, drip after drip, never knowing if today is that day, and that is real terror.
And the only way to beat them is to rise above it. Last year, I was walking into town, only to find out that most of it was closed off, because they had a reported bomb. I've been in bomb scares before, we're hideously desensitised to them. All I wanted to know was where I could go, and how far into town I could get, so I could do what I needed to do. I didn't run away home cos there might be a bomb. Fuck the terrorists! I'm going into town.
When we allow ourselves to change our lives to suit the terrorists, we let them win without blowing a single thing up.