aw, welcome! that's a great "problem" to have, trust me...but I am glad you've found this spot and are looking for support. You'll find it here! and i bet that most of the ladies you've been with just have no idea what to DO with a gigantic cock your size. (my first time with my guy, i literally sat up in bed and said "You're going to kill me with that thing"! so - be patient with the ladies and it will work out. good luck!!