Think I am in the correct web site, LPSG, do not have a large penis 4 1/2" but my problem is my 36 yo bf is 9" 6/2" and despite his extreme care and lots of lube n foreplay sex is quite painful. Realise that being on the receiving end of anal sex as a male must be at least uncomfortable but did not think that a dick his size would be so sore. Gay guys go on about taking king size cock but while I love my bf I would really like it more if he were just that bit smaller 7" or so great. Previous two bf's were 5 1/2" and 6" and it was just "sore" but satisfying. As this is a support group would think that someone else has this problem or has overcome it somehow, if so how.