NEW BOYFRIEND BUT IT STILL WANT OTHERS , bad person?

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Wanting to have sex with others does not mean you are not ready for a relationship, how many real relationships would there be if people followed this? Just use your charm to get him to live it up a bit in bed. Tell him how much you like being the boss, so much it would be fun if the usual dominate one is now helpless and submissive...you get my drift. Don't worry, feeling suck! Lets drink till we don't feel them anymore :D
 

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1) Having pretty strong desires for other people is relatively normal, especially at your age. But you need to take stock of your relationship. If he can't or won't top you, and you need it to feel sexually satisfied, then this relationship won't work.

2) Make sure you talk to him and make sure he understands how important this is to you.

3) Make sure that you genuinely need to be versatile in your relationship to be satisfied. There's absolutely nothing wrong at all in having a need to go both ways, and if your boyfriend can't or won't meet that need, then the relationship is likely doomed. But don't give up on it until you have talked to him fully and determined that you need it more than you need the relationship. That doesn't make you selfish. You are just human. As long as you BOTH understand that, then you are doing the right thing.

4) Having unfulfilled sexual desires does not give one license to cheat.