New Boyfriends..

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Shaun, Sep 1, 2005.

  1. Shaun

    Shaun New Member

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    Question..
    Do use woman think about the size of your current boy friends penis compared to your other boyfriends ?

    I mean, do use think to yourselfs that ur ex was better hung and i wish he was like that and stuff ?

    Does the large penis always stick in your mind ?


    Shaun..
     
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    I...I...must...resist...temptation...

    hell. :evilgrin:
     
  3. Knight

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    That sight is all too common in emergency rooms :p

    As for normal women, outside of emergency rooms - who knows what they're thinking and every woman is different.
     
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    Hey Shaun

    I have an ex and a current bf. My ex was 8.5x6 and my current bf is 7.5x6. I do compare them, but as weird as it may seem, sex with my new bf, is just so much better than with my ex, me an my bf click on an emotional level, and sex is alot more emotional than physical with him. If u know what i mean. so yeah women do compare, but i have found that a "smaller" cock is the best sex i have had in my life because of that emotional click we have. Size isnt everything.

    Luv Ya
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    The reason i asked is because i feel as if i have to prove something..
    Some girls i refuss to date because i know they have slept with a friend are someone i know are we both know, and i dont want her thinking that he is bigger and stuff.. The way i act around these girls they seem to think that im well endowned, but im not and i dont feel as if i could show them..
    Maybe im just being stupid eh ? :shrug:

    Shaun..
     
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    How do you 'act' as if you're well endowed? Unless you've said your 10" when you're not then I don't think you've done anything wrong. Most people (guys and gals) don't think I'm that big. It's always the ones you least expect :p

    Just go for it, any girl that gets naked with you isn't in it for your cock because up until that point she has not seen it. It really does depend more on your personality and your outward appearance than what's inside your pants.
     
  7. tillyrox

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    I couldnt have said it better myself, every decent girl i know, sleeps with a guy for the person they are, how sweet and kind and thoughtfull they are, not because of what dangles off them. Girls arent that shallow

    Luv Ya
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    A big cock does not automaticaly make someone a great lover any more than an average size cock makes someone a lousy lover. It's really what you do with it and how you approach pleasing your partner that are most important (and pleasure involves much more than inserting your penis inside of someoe else). I would try hard not to worry about being compared by friends--people talk and it may happen. Since you can neither stop it nor control it--worrying about it seems a waste of mental energy. Focus on making your love-making the best it can be and then all you'll have to worry about is if your partners are spreading the good word.
     
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    Shaun? It was bad enough when they were misspelling girls' names.

    Anyway, all girls are different. They probably do make comparisons, especially if you meet them while they're on the rebound.
     
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    Tilly,

    Being shallow is a bad thing?

    hb8
    Near the surface
     
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    Every penis is special in its own way, and they all stand alone (no pun intended). If I wanted the penis I left, I'd have kept it, not moved on to the new one. And do you really think a man could make it to boyfriend status if a woman was secretly lusting after a different penis?? That's just a waste of time for her.
     
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    I normally kill my ex's when I'm 'finished' with them......


    j/k....i'm sure women do compare. It be kinda hard not to..do you think?? i bet you don't.
     
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    I can't personally contribute, but I do know a girl who endlessly goes on about previous boyfriends and their penises.

    Christ I think I know the size of every guy she has slept with, even though I don't know them personally.

    I also know their sex preferences and their bedside manner.

    You really cannot get her to shut up about that kind of thing. :cry:
     
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    Yes you can. Duct tape her mouth shut.
    :evilgrin:

    Honestly, going on/obsessing about previous partners strikes me as very disrespectful. The only thing I've told my guy about the guy I was dating before him was that he bought me a strap-on for Christmas. (He got me a kitten a few weeks later as a kiss-and-make-up present.)
     
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    Oh I know a few of those. Funny thing is, they all suck in bed and they blame it on the guy.
     
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    Yes you can. Duct tape her mouth shut.
    :evilgrin:

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    Problem is: she'd love that - she's confided in me that she likes the idea of a bit of S&M.
     
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    Oh I know a few of those. Funny thing is, they all suck in bed and they blame it on the guy.
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    I have no idea about that, she seems pretty knowledgeable though.
     
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    I never compare in my mind.... no. A guy is memorable to me if he's a good lover, and if there is a mental and physical connection. I never think "wow, Bob I dated 3 years ago was much bigger." During sex, I'm thinking

    "oh my GOD, this is so freaking awesome... oh yes.. oh yes.... harder harder.."

    (you get the point)

    Lulu
     
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    Thanks for the replys all.. :thumbsup:
    Seems a big penis is hard to forget eh!

    Shaun
     
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    I absolutely agree that sex is better with the emotional envolvement, that being said, there WAS an emotional connection with your ex. Now compare the sex you have with your current bf to the sex that you had with the ex when you were emotionally invested in him. If it's the same answer then perhaps you didn't need the extra length, but perhaps you feel that if you prefer the larger then you are saying that the current guy doesn't measure up. That's not the case, an ex can very well be more appealing in a particular area, but the sum of the current bf's assets outweigh those of the ex.

    I think people are quick to say that everything about the current is better than a former, perhaps to make them feel that they've completely upgraded, or to not hurt the current (when in reality we would never tell them how we really, completely feel).

    This isn't directly at you, personally, Tilly just presenting possible options.
     
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