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HornyVeteranSJ:
I for instance find myself sometimes very sexually attracted to people's emotional states. Fragility and meloncholia really make me hard and turned on.

I thought I was the only one like that. It's with the guys though for me....I guess I'd really like to cheer the bloke up. B)
 
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VladtheImpaler: GottaBigOne, I have a similar attraction to unhappy women myself. I don't think it's "sick" though. It feels to me more like a deep sympathy with someone who is suffering, and this sympathy leads to a feeling of "oneness" with her, the ultimate expression of which is the desire to make love to her. You might say this feeling is similar to what in an earlier day would be called chivalry; you want to help a vulnerable woman and in the process develop a romantic attraction to her, even if it is never acted upon. You know, the whole "rescuing damsels in distress" thing.

And sometimes a slight physical problem with the girl makes her even more attractive. I remember when I was in college there was a pretty girl who was friends with me (never went beyond that, to my regret); she had a slight limp, and for some reason this made her much more attractive to me. Go figure :wacko: .
 
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blonde12dd: hey no fair. that "tender" guy said i dont care about my bf. Thats an attack. i actually do care...funny that. look, just play nice and i'll play nice back.
 
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Originally posted by blonde12dd@Jul 11 2004, 09:18 PM
hey no fair. that "tender" guy said i dont care about my bf.
tender is a chick ;)
 
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monstro: If memory serves, Tender is female. ;) I don't think anyone's trying to attack you, though, blonde--I think we all want to help as much as possible. Has your bf had anything to say about this thread? Has he recognized you? And if so, have you talked about this with him?

And as for what you guys are talking about, Gotta and Vlad, seems to me that it's not that uncommon. Guys frequently want to "save" troubled women or crave the sort of emotional intensity that troubled women can provide. Nietzsche had quite a lot to say about that sort of thing (not that anyone should go rushing to Nietzsche for relationship advice, though)--and Leopold Bloom famously masturbates for the lame Gerty MacDowell in Ulysses.
 
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blonde12dd: No im not old...guess it shows eh. Sorry tender...didnt mean to call you a guy. By the way i have never cheated. And as for my past relationship all has gone well. It was meant to be a pun as such... i mean how can you have past relationships without never brekaing up. So i was just being very honest in that i probably wont be with the person for life. I am only 18! I swear i said that in my first message...if i didnt i didnt mean to mislead. Am i allowed a moment to reflect and admire large dicks though? Im just really impressed, and intrieged. thats gotta be natural???
 
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palladen: If I may interject, i think 12's curiousity is intriguing: if her BF asked her to measure (AND he's been to this site), he shouldn't have any problems with her asking questions here as well.

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blonde12dd: "hear ye hear ye...plladen is a genius"! Ha ha! My bf looks at porn...i dont. something about a goose and a gander :p
Look i didnt snoop..all i did was click on the blue box. By the way tender...what brings you here?? just out of curiosity (im feeling safe...not being a cat and all)
 

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I think its perfectly natural for you too want to look at be intrigued by huge cocks. Hey, there fun to look at! I also think that if your bf would have a problem with that he'd be a huge hypocrite. I don't get why so many people want to put chains on their significant others?? Why do you want to control what they do simply because you get jealous and have insecurities?
I will never understand monogamy.
 

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Gottabigone, neither will I!!

Blonde12DD, I knew this would be a long thread by tonight! Sorry to leave you stranded. What these nice guys fail to admit is that they judge us by our breast size before they even decide if they are going to get to know us! DMW is an exception to the rule, he is truly speaking the honest truth about himself. As he is gay, he is going to see things differently than you ar I will as women. Most straight men make judgements about women immediately, and it's very much based on looks. Yes, some like the damsel in distress, but doubt they'd be very interested if they didn't find her pretty.

I'm not advocating choosing partners based soley on size, unless you're interested in trying casual sex only, and it is well understood by both parties. If that's the case, experiment away! At 18, you are indeed very young and should satisfy your curiousities. You may find that it's not such a big deal, but you may find differently. It's your world, baby, have fun in it.

Who knows why Tender is on here...married, mother of three, Christian conservative, sure spends a lot of time looking at big cocks to be such a prude.
 

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You've gotta love her, none the less. :)

I'm not the only member of the "Tender fan club, surely?"

BTW, I'm dissapointed no one's welcomed Blonde to the women's auxillary!


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Blonde, hi, I'm going to "defend my honour" against Zora's accusations! Us men don't all check out your boobs, well, if you've got a nice ass, that's something as well! :lol:

Anyway, as far as viewling LPSG, it's your life, do whatever. Your BF isn't small, heck, he'd probably get a lot of compliments if he came here, I'm no Godzilla myself.

To answer one of your earlier questions. Because penises are fleshy, they don't get "that" heavy, it's not something unworkable with at the very least, but as mentioned, sex can be a problem, so if you do find someone who's "over and beyond the call of duty", then a lot of patience and practice might be in order, a big dick doesn't equal a better lover, sadly some people never "fit together" while some women are lucky enough to find guys who can light their fires, whatever their size.

Blargh, enough with the mush, thanks for popping in. :)
 

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Originally posted by blonde12dd@Jul 11 2004, 11:32 PM
So give me a break....go pick on someone your own size/age. Hey everything is appreciated...just dont be mean.
Hey, you asked for opinions, and i gave you mine. I'm not being mean; I'm being truthful. What I said is exactly how I feel about the situation.


But atleast admit there is nothing wrong with liking a guy coz he is kind, sweet, caring...and has a big one.
That was my point ... sort of. 'Kind, sweet, caring' are good. And I'm not adverse to a big cock; it's just not my focal point when looking for a partner.
 
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blonde12dd: haha...you go 'oracomber'. truth is i like being checked out...its flattering. Besides, seriously...what could i do about it if i didnt want them to???
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jul 12 2004, 06:05 AM
I'm not advocating choosing partners based soley on size, unless you're interested in trying casual sex only, and it is well understood by both parties. If that's the case, experiment away!
Now if you're talking hot, sweaty, yell-when-you-get-your-nut sex ... well, that's a horse of a different colour! (Now that a certain former member is banned, I can safely use the word horse! :rolleyes: )
I might look for, let's say, a certain physical quality on a guy for a wild romp in the hay, but it's not a big cock. I'm a top; I'll trust your judgment on what I'm lookng for. But even so, a good personality is still required.