so I had this girl over for the first time last night and we were fooling around a little bit and she noticed my gigantic bulge lol. her eyes lit up and she asked me to pull it out, so of course I did. she really loved it and told me it was by far the biggest she's ever seen, but she was afraid to have sex with me because she was worried about it being painful. my question is.. what can I say that will reassure her everything will be fine. I know she will love it once things get going, but I need to convince her to let me in! any advice would be great, thanks!