New chick is afraid of my penis..

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  1. Big_Italy6

    Big_Italy6 Well-Known Member

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    so I had this girl over for the first time last night and we were fooling around a little bit and she noticed my gigantic bulge lol. her eyes lit up and she asked me to pull it out, so of course I did. she really loved it and told me it was by far the biggest she's ever seen, but she was afraid to have sex with me because she was worried about it being painful.

    my question is.. what can I say that will reassure her everything will be fine. I know she will love it once things get going, but I need to convince her to let me in! any advice would be great, thanks!
     
  2. blakobra8

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    "Think of it like this: was loosing your virginity a little painful?" "Yeah..." "But now sex feels great right?" "Yeah" "trust me, it'll be worth it."

    or

    "you know, almost every girl I've been with has said that, and once they tried it, they couldn't get enough"

    or

    "you're telling me that you would pass on what might be the best sex of your life because you're scared of a little pain? that's pretty lame."
     
  3. blakobra8

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    oh, and lastly: "weaker woman than you have taken it and loved it"
     
  4. B_Hornaplenty

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    My advice is that you initially switch the excitement to her...let her know that you need to eat her pussy...go down on her and get her hot...nibbling and sucking enthusiastically until she is flowing and moaning. With such stimulation she'll be begging you to fuck her, and then you can slide that massive tool into her cunt without pain to her, and she won't want to stop.
     
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    I agree with this but you need to tell her you are going to be gentle and get her ready long before you start up man. Tell her she you will make her ready for your body. Lucky gal
     
  6. atlclgurl

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    No, you're not trying to get laid... so I should just trust you. Riiiiiggghtt.


    You got any of them girls on speed dial?

    Yes, this will work because we are just like men and a challenge to my masculinity will get me to do stupid shit every time! :rolleyes:

    Oh, so I'm supposed to be "strong enough" to have sex with that might sword you're wielding there.... silly me, and here I thought sex was supposed to about pleasure... not being strong.:rolleyes:

    Not a single one of these will work on the average woman.

    This probably will:
    This too:
     
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    Whats she so afraid of. Nice cock but above avg maybe, not super monster or anything thats scary. Maybe she IS a virgin. In anycase, maybe she just changed her mind about goin through with it for other reason(like not primed up) (period) ...
     
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    Try explaining you will go slow. Use lots of lube etc. The truth is if you have a big dick you will get turned down time to time. Ive been turned down many time due to women being scared. Shit I've even been turned down by escorts and they get paid for it lol.
     
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    The truth is you will get turned Dow. From time to time when you have a big dick. This happens to me on periodically. No convincing will help. Shit I've even been turned down by escorts and they get paid for it lol.
     
  10. D_Sam Rockswell

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    The only way you can reassure her everything will be fine is to respect that she wants to ease into it. If you do have a big one i'd say to get use to it.
     
  11. Serial Kisser

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    Do you ever get laid with lines like that?
     
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    SK with the reality check, good stuff as always.
     
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    I call it "hurts good"
     
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    hey, i thought he wanted lines, i gave him lines.

    if you want good advice then just do what hornaplenty said.

    some people i swear
     
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    that was a lot of sarcasm at one time atlclgurl
     
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    Just letting you know what the "average" woman is thinking when presented with those kind of lines.

    IF a girl is anywhere near attractive, we have heard hundreds if not thousands of "lines". The feeding of bullshit lines start when we are in our early teens and does not let up until, well, I dunno when, (guess I haven't reached that stage yet - although I'm certain to at some point).

    But, that's not my point, most women are not stupid and most women have a heard enough lines to take anything a guy trying to get laid is saying with a very large salt lick... just sayin'.
     
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    "Some people I swear" - I agree.

    I didn't interpret him asking what to say to that girl as "Give me some terrible lines that will assure I get slapped in the face or never get laid again".

    I think he was asking for sincere advice.
     
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    Frig'n hot pics man, all of them. My ex and I had the same problem. It took several attempts, but once she tried, we did it every chance we could...anywhere, anytime. She'll come around, patience, and foreplay. She'll love it once she tries it on for size. Best of luck!

    Peace
     
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    must have just been my diseased mind
     
  20. Big_Italy6

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    thanks for all the advice everybody.. we're hanging out tomorrow night so I will just tell her that theres no rush and that everything will be fine. I will certainly go down on her and if we have to makeout for two hours then so be it lol. I will let you guys know how it goes :)
     
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