New flatmate obsessed with my cock-size

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I recently moved into a flatshare with a friend of a friend who was also flat-hunting.

Now he's straight, i'm pretty sure, but since he saw me in the bath (he was brushing his teeth) he's been kinda fixated on my cock and brings it up all the time.

I have NO idea what he's packing, and NO idea why he's fixated.

He doesn't know I'm a bit of a cock-hound so it might just be banter... but he might want a go. He's not bad looking (a fireman) and it would really perk me up to live with a fuck-budy.

How can I find out what he wants?
 

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First off you need a flat mate, and its not all that easy to find someone for this role. So I'm inclined to say take ten steps back. He's off limits.

It is possible of course that something more might develop - but let him take the initiative and the risk.
 

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timing is everything...let him continue to be vocal...give him a bit of rope...i suspect he will hang himself with it....and if not...you are still good to go......
 

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I am sure it will happen .. naturally
Cant see any reason for it not to .. from what you have described
and i reckon it will happen pretty soon
Thats my take on it .. you dont have to do anything i reckon
ONLY difficulty i forsee...is the possibility of your flatmate .. telling your friend'
If he is not happy with it (your friend that is) .. then obvious complications ..for a little bit of play'
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ask him what he thinks about your dick... if he wants to see how big it gets... then maybe he'll want to play with it and kiss it...
 

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I like the idea of bringing up an ex gf and how she thought u were so big etc. the next time he brings up ur dick or size. I've gotten friends to get naked and compare size with me after mentioning how my ex gf said I was the biggest she had or couldn't deep throat all of me etc. It's a safe way to open the discussion and see what he says.
 
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You need to casually come out of the shower in your towel and chat him up. Act casual. Maybe your towel's not too tightly wrapped.

He'll raise the subject of your cock. And your cock will then raise the subject of itself.

And you'll be sure to find out if there's anything further to discuss.

(Hey, write back and tell us all how it goes!)
 

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make sure it is evening too...the late eve and winding down can make for intimate conversation. Even if it is not about sex...just closeness...it might be nice to have that moment
 

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i would approach the subject carefully. don't do anything rash or sudden - start out just joking around, maybe asking to see his cock since he has already seen yours, and then see how he reacts. pushing him too hard or too fast could lead to a very awkward flat.
 

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Thanks for all the advice guys

I think I'm gonna wait until we're winding down in the evening the next time he's on day-shifts, bit of spliff, talk about ex-girlfriends and maybe suggest a porno and see what happens.

Sunday may be the day.
 
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It is possible of course that something more might develop - but let him take the initiative and the risk.
I think that Jason has some wise advice here. If your reactions to him mentioning your penis are positive, casual, friendly, and non-threatening, he'll likely take it to the next level if he's interested in being a flatmate with benefits.
 

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I'm sure it's nothing. My ex was pretty big and one time he took a picture of his cock inside me. One of his coworker got ahold of his cell and saw his cock. He showed the pic and for a week or two all his coworkers were obsessing about his cock. Mind you my bf whom I'm with now is bigger than my ex. :p (My ex doesn't know that of course !)
 

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It is possible of course that something more might develop - but let him take the initiative and the risk.

Agreed.

I had a similar situation. Straight friend and roommate saw my dick a few times (changing after rafting once, taking a leak outdoors, etc.). He would make references to it, talk about it and ask a lot of questions about it. He even told others we both knew that I had a big dick. He was intrigued but I made no move. Just after he moved out to live with his girlfriend he showed up a bit buzzed and flat out told me he wanted to blow me. I let him. It was a damn good blow job til he quit a bit too soon for me out of guilt for cheating on his girl. He told her and thankfully she accepted it as a one time thing and held him responsible. They eventually married. We're all still friends and he still makes comments from time-to-time, and for my 40th birthday they gave me a big-cock joke b'day card, but I'm pretty sure he has had his fill of cock.
 
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Agreed.

I had a similar situation. Straight friend and roommate saw my dick a few times (changing after rafting once, taking a leak outdoors, etc.). He would make references to it, talk about it and ask a lot of questions about it. He even told others we both knew that I had a big dick. He was intrigued but I made no move. Just after he moved out to live with his girlfriend he showed up a bit buzzed and flat out told me he wanted to blow me. I let him. It was a damn good blow job til he quit a bit too soon for me out of guilt for cheating on his girl. He told her and thankfully she accepted it as a one time thing and held him responsible. They eventually married. We're all still friends and he still makes comments from time-to-time, and for my 40th birthday they gave me a big-cock joke b'day card, but I'm pretty sure he has had his fill of cock.

Damn, Red, if your pal only ever got one cock in his life, he was DAMN luck to get yours . . . .