or maybe, did you fake it? cuz if you fake it they will think "woot! job well done! good game well played! *nap* " lolz.
When I was much younger I confess I did fake sometimes. Once I hit my late 20's (28,29) I quit. I realized faking was just hurting my own chances of enjoying sex fully so I never have since.
I don't know if it's sheer bad luck or my poor ability at attracting guys who are interested that women enjoy it too. I sure haven't found one yet who expressed even the slightest interest that anyone but themselves got off.
That doesn't mean the sex was bad. But I've never had any experience that lasted longer than 10 minutes tops - and that's including the foreplay.
And um...*sigh* I might as well confess it publicly though I don't know why. I've never in my life had a guy go down on me. You'll never see me giving advice in that arena because I simply have no experience of what it's like to draw from.
One guy dumped me when I expressed a wish for it rather than try it with me. He said he had a 'policy' of never eating women out as it's nastier than shit. I never heard from him again. He never answered my phone calls and I never saw him at any of the places we used to hang out at. And we'd been dating for over 2 months.
Something similar happened a few years later with another guy I was dating. Yet another guy who believed licking women is nasty, nasty, nasty (he confessed he fast forwards through the lick sections on any porn).
When I was on a vacation with a German boyfriend I made the mistake of suggesting slathering oil on our bodies so slipping and sliding up against each other during sex might be more fun. He took one look at me, got a sneer on his face and said I must've been a "professional" to suggest that. Then he wanted to know what rates I had charged before we became a couple. I was so shocked, hurt and mad I got up, got dressed and left the hotel and didn't come back until 2 am. Thankfully he was asleep by the time I got back.
Another of my ex-boyfriends actually stormed out of the house when I gave him a book on how to help women have G-Spot orgasms. I felt bad at making that mistake and we never discussed the subject again. He also confessed he didn't like the idea of licking women as he just can't help thinking how damn nasty it is - it's the region where blood flows once a month. He also disliked having sex when a woman is on her period - the thought of sex at that time made him sick to his stomach. I never suggested any of those activities with him ever again. I chalked it up to the fact he was raised in a highly religious Catholic family.
And with a history of bad reactions to remember I'm really gunshy now of suggesting anything at all. And no man I've ever slept with has ever taken the initiative or offered to try on their own. Not for licking, not for G-Spot...not for anything. I've pretty much learned sex for men (well...all except for the ones who post to message boards it seems) is only about poking it in and that everything will be over in 10 minutes. And many times it's gonna be a
lot less - more like 3-5.
So much for all those books I read about how men like to be advised on how to please you in bed. Yeah...riiiiiiiiiight. Suuuuuure they do.
Odd how every one of them though - even those who think eating out women is nastier than shit - want you to suck them. I guess sucking a penis is a far cleaner activity than licking a woman. :indifferent:
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