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If you go to a nudist beach in Europe, you will see that most if not almost all of the participants are at least 35-40 years old. In a locker room, it is typical to see that young men (men who probably have a sexual life and are well outside of puberty) are a lot more shy than older men.
This is not only a problem because it deprives me of some beautiful bodies to see , it seems to me that there is a more serious problem that the society as a whole should address.
When I was a young man, I had my fair share of porn. It was difficult to get, but there was and it was a reasonable part of my sexual life. Today's young men are exposed to an almost infinite amount of porn. They could see it all the day long, and this is resulting in them having problems with their bodies.
If you spend your time watching porn, you could get the idea that men are usually very toned or muscular, have a big dick, huge balls, cum a lot, fuck for hours: things that we do know are not real. Even the sex in a porn movie is not real, but a young man probably lacks the experience to understand that. I've heard of many young straight men that in the first sexual intercourse of their life instead of fucking the pussy chose to go anal, because they've understood, from porn movies, that is better.
So, they are ashamed of their bodies, and they tend to cover it as long as possible: how is it possible to be naked in a room full of other men when you don't have the 7 inch dick that is customary seen in a porn movie?
In the old days, being naked at the gym was a way to understand that you, as a man, are one of the many, not the one with the biggest dick not the one with the smallest, probably just a simple average guy with an average dick.
Now they constantly compare themselves to porn stars, with understandable results. I'd like to say that this does not happens in all the gyms I've been into in Italy, as there have some when young men simply don't care to be naked when drying their hair in front of others, with the positive defiant attitude that a young man with a toned body should have. But there is a tendency that I am seeing.
This worries me a bit, because men (I am always referring to them but I think the same happens for women) should not be ashamed of their body and should have a positive attitude towards sexual life. It is a clear example of ends.
Do you see the same? Does this worry you? We are going to see, in our lives, nudist beaches as a place for older persons?
This is not only a problem because it deprives me of some beautiful bodies to see , it seems to me that there is a more serious problem that the society as a whole should address.
When I was a young man, I had my fair share of porn. It was difficult to get, but there was and it was a reasonable part of my sexual life. Today's young men are exposed to an almost infinite amount of porn. They could see it all the day long, and this is resulting in them having problems with their bodies.
If you spend your time watching porn, you could get the idea that men are usually very toned or muscular, have a big dick, huge balls, cum a lot, fuck for hours: things that we do know are not real. Even the sex in a porn movie is not real, but a young man probably lacks the experience to understand that. I've heard of many young straight men that in the first sexual intercourse of their life instead of fucking the pussy chose to go anal, because they've understood, from porn movies, that is better.
So, they are ashamed of their bodies, and they tend to cover it as long as possible: how is it possible to be naked in a room full of other men when you don't have the 7 inch dick that is customary seen in a porn movie?
In the old days, being naked at the gym was a way to understand that you, as a man, are one of the many, not the one with the biggest dick not the one with the smallest, probably just a simple average guy with an average dick.
Now they constantly compare themselves to porn stars, with understandable results. I'd like to say that this does not happens in all the gyms I've been into in Italy, as there have some when young men simply don't care to be naked when drying their hair in front of others, with the positive defiant attitude that a young man with a toned body should have. But there is a tendency that I am seeing.
This worries me a bit, because men (I am always referring to them but I think the same happens for women) should not be ashamed of their body and should have a positive attitude towards sexual life. It is a clear example of ends.
Do you see the same? Does this worry you? We are going to see, in our lives, nudist beaches as a place for older persons?