I am the manager of an office of about 20 people, and about six weeks ago, I hired a couple of new employees. One of them is a guy in his mid to late 20s. Several times, I have caught him checking me out discretely, but I am sure that I am not imagining it. I think his interest may be partly fueled by the possibility that he has heard office gossip that I am reputably well-hung, something I understand was shared with my co-workers some years ago by another guy who used to work in the office and who saw me naked in a gym locker room during a business trip. Now I am noticing that whenever I go to the mens room, my new employee frequently appears and uses the neighboring urinal. A large panel separates the urinals, and again, although he attempts to be discrete I can see that he wants to look over the top but that he is not tall enough. For the record, I am unaware of his sexual orientation. He is single and nice-looking enough, and to my knowledge, he has never mentioned a girlfriend to anyone, but at his age, that is not a sure indicator. Based on his behavior, one might suppose that he at least has gay leanings, but perhaps he is merely curious. Let me make it very clear that I have absolutely no intention of becoming sexually involved with someone who works for me. However, I do find myself wondering whether I should stand back from the urinal before I tuck my boys back into my pants so that he can have a look. This might satisfy his curiosity and end his preoccupation with my goods. However, conceivably, it might make him worse. I wonder if anyone has any advice to share or if someone has experienced a similar situation.