New guy, does he have a big dick, and when is too soon for birthday head?

[SouthernGirl]

What the hell? I guess I'll have to start a fat chicks thread, lol. Anyway, the menu is up in the air. Its gonna be between soul food or something Italian (he LOVES Italian food). Anyway, I think I've become addicted to big dicks. You may think that 8+inch superthicks are rare but they are not in my hood. I've had average and was very satisfied but I just crave a bigger one. I found this non pornographic website with pictures of average sized normal men in flaccid & erect states and many of them looked very yummy (I was getting aroused). I felt so much better after viewing that site. But im still gonna keep my fingers crossed!

 

[dolfette]

since when was great sex superficial in a relationship?

it can make or break.

 

[BigJR]

since when was great sex superficial in a relationship?

it can make or break.

I give up, anyone else like to explain this to her?

 

[dolfette]

I give up, anyone else like to explain this to her?

twat

 

[wallyj84]

uh huh. what's real to you isn't always real to others.
and each person uses different measurements.

for me, someone who is educated is more enticing than someone who is good looking...someone else will have the reverse. so it's far too subjective to have set & universal grading. it's just personal tastes.

But those subjective aspects of attraction are still being picked from a preselected menu.

For the vast majority of people there are certain traits that are universally considered good or bad. Now, not everyone will value those traits at equal levels, but nearly everyone can agree with whether or not those traits are positive or negative.

To be fair, there are a few people who will be attracted to things that are considered negative traits by the rest of the population. But, these people represent an extremely low in number. So low that they are really statistically insignificant.

 

[helgaleena]

I am so glad I do not use statistics to justify my personal tastes! :lol:

 

[nicenycdick]

... I found this non pornographic website with pictures of average sized normal men in flaccid & erect states...

Is such a thing possible?

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

Life and love is going to be quite shallow for you if that's your only focus.

"Going to be quite shallow" in future tense? Come on, this girl's life IS shallow, in present tense.

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

Is such a thing possible?

Art? :smile:

 

[wallyj84]

I am so glad I do not use statistics to justify my personal tastes! :lol:

So basically, you know that I'm right but don't want to admit it, so you just post a sarcastic comment?

Nice.

 

[helgaleena]

No actually, I know you are wrong, but was not going to rub your nose in it. oh well!

 

[wallyj84]

No actually, I know you are wrong, but was not going to rub your nose in it. oh well!

Then show me where I'm wrong.

 

[SouthernGirl]

Is such a thing possible?

I didn't know if it was ok to post links or not, but the site is erectionphotos.com. Just pics of penises of all sizes. I don't even have a penis but the site gave me a lot of hope.

 

[helgaleena]

Wally, you are wrong because you think you are right and that the opinions and tastes of individuals who differ from you are not important if they are in the minority.

I have been in one minority or another my entire life, very seldom in a majority. I am used to this. Does this mean that I am 'wrong' to exist and to hold opinions that differ from your own?

Despite the fashion and health standards of the experts, in the United States, obesity is at the highest levels of any nation. Southern Girl might not be to your taste, but she is not statistically insignificant. And if you were a true capitalist, you would be tapping her as a market.

 

[dolfette]

all of my friends are minorities in their tastes.
we tend to gravitate towards each other.
just as we do in love.

 

[wallyj84]

Wally, you are wrong because you think you are right and that the opinions and tastes of individuals who differ from you are not important if they are in the minority.

I have been in one minority or another my entire life, very seldom in a majority. I am used to this. Does this mean that I am 'wrong' to exist and to hold opinions that differ from your own?

I never said that minorities don't matter or that they're somehow "wrong." I said that people who's preferences deviated from the norm were statistically insignificant. Meaning that the number of people who hold those preferences are so few in number, that they hold no weight in determining the views of the majority of people.

Despite the fashion and health standards of the experts, in the United States, obesity is at the highest levels of any nation. Southern Girl might not be to your taste, but she is not statistically insignificant. And if you were a true capitalist, you would be tapping her as a market.

I'm not saying that fat women are statistically insignificant, but that people with a genuine attraction to fat women are statistically insignificant.

 

[helgaleena]

And when I said that I did not use statistics to uphold or formulate my opinions, this offended you; why?

Because I do not think you are wrong to have majority opinions; I think you are wrong to criticize those of us who do not. For you did so. Read back all the posts you have made in this thread.

 

[wallyj84]

And when I said that I did not use statistics to uphold or formulate my opinions, this offended you; why?

Because I do not think you are wrong to have majority opinions; I think you are wrong to criticize those of us who do not. For you did so. Read back all the posts you have made in this thread.

I'm not criticizing you. You can have your opinions. That's fine with me. But, I just want for you to recognize that they are not popular opinions. They aren't bad or wrong, but they aren't normal.

An attraction to fat women isn't normal. It's not wrong, but it's not normal. Most men are not attracted to fat women. That's just a fact.

 

[helgaleena]

Do you gain some sort of enjoyment from thinking like 'most men' ? You seem to repeat it frequently.

Yes, the definition of normal is tied to the concept of statistical norm. An individual has posted a thread about her own life, and she deviates in some ways from the statistical norm and in some ways she does not. As do nearly all humans.

She has detected no difficulty in finding men attracted to her type of female where she is living, so why be discouraging? I read from your posting history that you do not live in the same part of the world as her.

There are quite a few posts by gay men here, and gay men are definitely a statistical minority. Would you post in their threads that most men are not attracted to other men, that is just a fact?

 

[wallyj84]

Do you gain some sort of enjoyment from thinking like 'most men' ? You seem to repeat it frequently.

Yes, the definition of normal is tied to the concept of statistical norm. An individual has posted a thread about her own life, and she deviates in some ways from the statistical norm and in some ways she does not. As do nearly all humans.

She has detected no difficulty in finding men attracted to her type of female where she is living, so why be discouraging? I read from your posting history that you do not live in the same part of the world as her.

There are quite a few posts by gay men here, and gay men are definitely a statistical minority. Would you post in their threads that most men are not attracted to other men, that is just a fact?

I'm not being discouraging, I'm being realistic.

Southerngirl should have a realistic view of herself and her options in the dating world. Not something blinded by idiotic "positivity."