Just joined after stumbling on this site I'm only about 7 inches long but I've been told that I'm very wide and most times I'm with women they cant continue relations for very long. Its been more of a problem as I've gotten older. The last thing I want to do is hurt someone I'm trying to have an intimate time with. Condoms have been problematic as well as most feel too tight or are too long. I've had a few tear scares as well. I hope to find some advice here. Thanks ahead of time.