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Discussion in 'New Member Introductions' started by chicago8x6, Jun 20, 2011.

  1. chicago8x6

    chicago8x6 New Member

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    Someone from Adult Friend Finder recommended I join here. I have a big dick, and sort of mixed experiences associated with it.

    I've had a number of women freak out over it online, but when we meet, it's not always great. I have a neurological condition (could be mistaken for cerebral palsy), and I always disclose beforehand. Some women can handle it, some not. It can make online dating awkward.

    I had one woman break up with me with the line, 'you're too big for me, let's just be friends.' I had another who sat me down and told me I had to be more gentle or she was going break up with me. And though we overcame it, it was never a positive thing with her.

    Thats's what led me to AFF, where I thought I could be more open and find women who were into it. I've met a few who said they were, but my best experiences were with women who didn't care about it.

    At this point, I'm a little resigned. Which will pass like everything else, but I need to think a bit more about how to deal with it.
     
  2. bored2009

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    Welcome guy. :)
     
  3. Mr. Snakey

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    Welcome:smile:
     
  4. parchissi

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    Greetings - a warm lpsg welcome to you. Cheers.
     
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