New here - quick question for all (or any) who would answer

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Didn't know this site existed until the other day, decided to register mainly for the pics and posts, but there was one question in particular that I would like to ask...

Was there a moment or maybe even an epiphany when it dawned on you guys that you were "large"?

I don't consider myself large by any means - I am 7.5inch by 5.5inch (measuring correctly), which I guess is large by some standards, but growing up it always seemed small. It's not the size penis most guys aspire to or lie about, it seems the popular large sizes are 8, 9, and 10 (especially 9 and 10).

In any case, I always heard from girlfriends that I was large by their standards but always felt like maybe they said that to make me feel good. I always suffered from premature ejaculation and I honestly to this day don't feel I have ever gotten a woman off. I was always insecure for some reason.

Long story short, the other day I was sporting the hardest erection in years and decided to measure (last time I measured was in my early 20s and all I knew was I was a tad longer than a dollar), and measuring across the top from base to tip I measure 7.5 inches, and 5.5 inches circumference. This isn't near as much as most of you guys, but for me, this was a defining moment, and here is why... As I was finishing the measurement, I actually muttered to myself without really thinking about it, "I have a large penis", and it was like a light bulb came on - it is really hard to explain. I know my penis is hardly large, but it is compared to some. In any case, I've been quite happy the last week or two, and just had to share!

Do any of you have any similar experiences of when you came to know you were big (or accept that you were)? I know a lot of you are probably so big that you always knew it - but when you are straddling the fence between average and large (like me), it isn't always so clear cut.

I would love to hear any stories if you have them?

- Sam
 

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Trust me, Sam, you are definitely large .... probably larger than 90% of the guys on this site.

In my case, for most of my adulthood I didn't really think of myself as particularly hung. Looking down at your own dick it never looks as impressive as someone else's, seen in profile. And I had the same experiences as you with women telling me I was large but my assuming that they were just playing to my ego. Spent the first 25 years of my adult life married and the first inkling that I had was when I had to go back to using condoms and found that a standard sized rubber just wouldn't work. I'm just a little under 8 inches BPEL and 6.25 inches in girth, and it was the girth that forced me into Magnum XL condoms.

But the real "epiphany" came when, after my last divorce, I decided to try playing with guys and I was able to get an up close and personal comparison on where I fit in among the male population. I know there are plenty of guys out there who are bigger, a good many of them on this very site, but in reality they are few and far between.
 

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All I can say for (me) is the following: I am of average endowment. But I have a gift to match the largely endowed. My epiphany was at a sex party with another bottom. I saw him not be able to take what I could, and I realized my own gift. there are those that come here who are large. . and then there are those of us who can accomodate and or support the well endowed.
 

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Thanks a lot guys, I am going to update this thread and my profile with pictures tomorrow night (when I get the house to myself).

Thanks for the compliment Silvertip, and tbh your penis looks huge. You must not have a lot of fat down there because your 8inches is out there.

Mister Slave, that is definitely a trait plenty of guys can appreciate!

- Sam
 

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Your post is interesting to me because I only found out last summer when I decided to measure myself for some reason, which I hadn't done since I was probably 13. I thought I was about 6" and average. I have been married for many years since 21 and busy with other things. I converted to boxers early on and included boxer briefs as soon as I found out about them because regular briefs were uncomfortable. I used regular condoms for years and just thought they should only fit part way down the shaft. They were also very tight but workable and I thought that was just how it was until I stumbled across some larger ones once when making a purchase--what a relief! I just thought the manufacturer had been being cheap making them too short. What a dunce.

Anyway, I found this site back last summer but only registered last week. I find it interesting and helpful. I wish I had more of this information when I was younger.

Having a larger package has somehow put a spring in my step. I really don't know why. I do know that I have always had a very satisfying sex life and I think the larger size has helped me without my even knowing about it. Hey, maybe if I had known when I was younger I could have been a show-off!
 

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7.5 x 5.5 is great! Much over 8" most people can't do as much with. Not everyone can deep throat or get THAT deeply penetrated. You are big, rest assured. Not huge, but big. I would love to have my dick to be the size of your dick. I am only 5 x 4.25. Some call me tiny. Many call me small. One even said "Awwwww, hot cuuuuute." Still, most can take it all orally or otherwise, so not so bad really.
Enjoy what you have!
 

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Hey Sam,

I went through the same process of self-discovery. While you've seem to have reached acceptance, I'm still not sure of myself.

I always thought of myself as average. I always thought the girls I encountered were just building up my ego telling me I had a huge dick. And I always thought condoms were supposed to be that tight.

If you're interested to read the entire story, you can read it in my blog. http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/wotton/

I'm also a new member, just joined this weekend.

-Wotton
 

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I knew from very young that I was big. Now not even 7". (Maybe I lost during the years 0.5"(not sure) in lenght but not in girth)
I still find my dick very big, close to porn-dicks.

But I had some advantages...

1/ In school - more than 40years ago; open showers - and everyone naked - no underwear allowed.
Limp I was like now big, I'm not a grower. (mostly 5")
We knew what an average limp dick was...

2/ I didn't grow up with porn.
The first porn movie I saw was "Deep Throat", and I was already married then for 5 years.

3/ I never had a BMI over 25. I've an almost non existing fat pad. (0.5cm => less than 0.25")
Even when I was almost 200Lbs. So you get all what you see.

4/ Dick lenght in my younger years was for everyone less important than music and looks...and yes study also.

I don't really understand the insecurities of guys with a number higher than mine. No one told me I was average. Neither did I felt average.
Even in porn they are hardly an inch bigger than mine (except for an handfull exceptions) , and tell me what's an inch...

Good advise - don't be fixated on something so small - biceps, leggs, belly, are more visable and you can with some effort show them on the street without offending one.
But let the small thing in your pants...
 

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I had a fwb for 5 years who had the biggest 10x7in uncut cock I've ever seen. He told me growing up and even until he had met me he thought he was small and women were just humoring him. I had to pull up actual statistics to prove to him just how rarely huge he was.