My wife says she thinks i'm bigger and thicker than most she was ever with. I'm wondering if she's only saying that cause she kinda "has" to. It's like a Mother. She's not going to tell you if your ugly cause she's your Mom haha. I'm about 7" and 5.75 in girth hard. It fluxuates between 3-4 inches in length soft but i'm more of a shower anyways. Also if I didn't post this in the correct area please forgive me. Just wanted some honest opinions and sorry for the pic quality. It was taken with cell phone lol. Everything I have read or heared tells me i'm above average but why do I still not feel like i'm satisfying my wife even though she says I am? She said she was with a dude almost 10 inches once but i'm as girthy as him and she says that it hurts sometimes with me in certain posistions. I said I want it bigger but she said she wouldn't have sex with me if it was. Guess i'm being dumb. I dunno. Anyways thanks for the feedback folks. Great website.