New Measures To Combat Bullying And Unnecessarily Mean Posts On Lpsg

[LPSG Support]

My goal has always been for LPSG to be a sexy, friendly, and enjoyable community. I want everyone to feel welcome here. I want your experience at LPSG to be as positive as possible. Hence, this message to all of you.

There is one part of LPSG that has bothered me since I took over. That is the nastiness shown towards some performers. While this behavior is a very small part of LPSG it can be so nasty it makes all of LPSG look bad. There are some threads and comments that are hard to read. I think this is unfair, unwarranted and something we'd like to change.

Starting today we are going to make LPSG a nicer place.

The first thing we'd like to do is reduce is the number of unnecessarily mean comments.
A mean comment is one that intends, is meant, to hurt someone.

Examples of Unnecessarily Mean Comments....

• They're/You're Ugly
• They're/You're Fat
• They're/You're skinny
• They're/You're dumb

These are just a few examples.
Instead of posting "Mr. LPSG's Ugly" Post "Mr. LPSG's Not My Type".

Better yet, if you don't have anything nice to say don't comment. There seems to be this desire by a few Members to make performers feel worse about themselves. If you are posting to simply try to attack a performer please don't.

How will Unnecessarily Mean Comments be Handled?

First, it is important to remember LPSG works on a reporting system. So as this type of content is reported our team will review it and make a decision.

If the post was made before today it will be edited (to remove the mean part) or deleted.
If the post is made after today....
1st time. The user will receive a friendly reminder from us.
2nd time. The user will receive a warning.
If the user continues this behavior, they may end up being banned, either temporarily or permanently.

Being unnecessarily mean adds no value to a thread or to LPSG; not to mention it indirectly impacts the people who may like that particular performer. Repeated mean comments are a form of bullying towards a performer or person and that isn't acceptable. Users who do this will also be banned from posting in that thread in the future.

CyberBullying
There are two key factors that determine whether someone is bullying someone else or not.
1. The intent to harm
2. Repeated acts of threat or aggressive behavior.
This too will not be allowed on LPSG.

What are some forms of such bullying?
Nasty and humiliating comments
Sharing photos for the sole purpose of ridiculing someone
False information that can be damaging to the person's reputation

We will also not allow
Doxxing.
Trying to out a person.
Threatening to contact their family.
Trying to cancel a person.
Trying to hurt a person's reputation.
Sharing social media photos of someone's family (namely parents).

These are all forms of abuse that we do not want on LPSG.

Anyone making posts with such content that are reported will receive a warning; multiple warnings could lead to a ban. Any user who receives a warning for this may be banned from replying to that thread again in the future.

Please note... We are not asking users to go on a mass reporting crusade. Mass reporting is very disruptive to our moderating team. In general, if you have a few posts to report try to limit it to 5. That allows us to get to the really important reports like illegal content, spam, and harmful links.

Let me assure you this is in no way an attempt to censor you. You can still speak your mind. You are free to say when a performer is not worth the money. You are free to post when you've been scammed. You can talk about being disappointed and underwhelmed by a performer.

We are just asking you to be a little more mindful about the posts you make. The less negativity found on LPSG the more enjoyable it will be for all of us.

My goal is to make LPSG a more enjoyable community for all LPSG Users. I believe these measures will be a huge step in the right direction.

If you have any comments or suggestions regarding this I'm all ears. Thank you for reading and being here!

Thanks to all in advance for your cooperation.
Mr. LPSG and the LPSG Team!

 

[rruk]

Totally agree with you.. great idea..

 

[Dr_Feelgood_LV]

My goal has always been for LPSG to be a sexy, friendly, and enjoyable community. I want everyone to feel welcome here. I want your experience at LPSG to be as positive as possible. Hence, this message to all of you.

There is one part of LPSG that has bothered me since I took over. That is the nastiness shown towards some performers. While this behavior is a very small part of LPSG it can be so nasty it makes all of LPSG look bad. There are some threads and comments that are hard to read. I think this is unfair, unwarranted and something we'd like to change.

Starting today we are going to make LPSG a nicer place.

The first thing we'd like to do is reduce is the number of unnecessarily mean comments.
A mean comment is one that intends, is meant, to hurt someone.

Examples of Unnecessarily Mean Comments....

• They're/You're Ugly
• They're/You're Fat
• They're/You're skinny
• They're/You're dumb

These are just a few examples.
Instead of posting "Mr. LPSG's Ugly" Post "Mr. LPSG's Not My Type".

Better yet, if you don't have anything nice to say don't comment. There seems to be this desire by a few Members to make performers feel worse about themselves. If you are posting to simply try to attack a performer please don't.

How will Unnecessarily Mean Comments be Handled?

First, it is important to remember LPSG works on a reporting system. So as this type of content is reported our team will review it and make a decision.

If the post was made before today it will be edited (to remove the mean part) or deleted.
If the post is made after today....
1st time. The user will receive a friendly reminder from us.
2nd time. The user will receive a warning.
If the user continues this behavior, they may end up being banned, either temporarily or permanently.

Being unnecessarily mean adds no value to a thread or to LPSG; not to mention it indirectly impacts the people who may like that particular performer. Repeated mean comments are a form of bullying towards a performer or person and that isn't acceptable. Users who do this will also be banned from posting in that thread in the future.

CyberBullying
There are two key factors that determine whether someone is bullying someone else or not.
1. The intent to harm
2. Repeated acts of threat or aggressive behavior.
This too will not be allowed on LPSG.

What are some forms of such bullying?
Nasty and humiliating comments
Sharing photos for the sole purpose of ridiculing someone
False information that can be damaging to the person's reputation

We will also not allow
Doxxing.
Trying to out a person.
Threatening to contact their family.
Trying to cancel a person.
Trying to hurt a person's reputation.
Sharing social media photos of someone's family (namely parents).

These are all forms of abuse that we do not want on LPSG.

Anyone making posts with such content that are reported will receive a warning; multiple warnings could lead to a ban. Any user who receives a warning for this may be banned from replying to that thread again in the future.

Please note... We are not asking users to go on a mass reporting crusade. Mass reporting is very disruptive to our moderating team. In general, if you have a few posts to report try to limit it to 5. That allows us to get to the really important reports like illegal content, spam, and harmful links.

Let me assure you this is in no way an attempt to censor you. You can still speak your mind. You are free to say when a performer is not worth the money. You are free to post when you've been scammed. You can talk about being disappointed and underwhelmed by a performer.

We are just asking you to be a little more mindful about the posts you make. The less negativity found on LPSG the more enjoyable it will be for all of us.

My goal is to make LPSG a more enjoyable community for all LPSG Users. I believe these measures will be a huge step in the right direction.

If you have any comments or suggestions regarding this I'm all ears. Thank you for reading and being here!

Thanks to all in advance for your cooperation.
Mr. LPSG and the LPSG Team!

"Performers?"

So like I discussed on email recently that I never got proper replies on, this issue is not as black-and-white as you all seem to simplistically think it is. How do you define "bullying" exactly for instance? Is it when you reply in self-defense to an UNPROVOKED bullying email cloaked in fake "politeness" by calling them out on their bullshit, hypocrisy and disrespect? There are some noobs here who act like they own the site and bully others into abiding by "their rules" through careful wordiing that avoids language that would technically not be considered bullying but are clearly intended to offend and bully others into submission, knowing full well that others would react honestly like any normal human being who is subjected to being degraded/humiliated publicly and that is to then use language that would be ironically considered "bullying" by the trigger-happy moderators who may have genuine frustration over the real aggressors and would just dismiss the case as just another "garden variety" offense without reading the full exchange and investigation of the conflict history that may span several threads over a long period of time? (Of course, I understand who wants to do that?! I wouldn't either. Lol)

But aren't passive-aggressive "signatures" or "instructions" to just post porn, click "like" and not to bother with (God forbid it just uses up an inch of digital space!) the simple yet gracious act of saying "THANK YOU" (you're not only NOT supposed to discuss on this discussion forum anymore, you're not to even "waste" precious bytes on expressions of gratitude on people whose generosity you came here solely for, wow!!! WTF are these "people?!" Absolute porn ad-dicks who can't afford it so they feel entitled to be given it for free?) that actually encourages a genuinely friendly and respectful community that makes sure generous members and contributors (of ideas and information also, not just porn) feel appreciated and not disrespected, which would then encourage others in a chain reaction to share instead of constantly being in fear if they might get banned and punished for their good deeds or even (gasp!) defending themselves or their opinions. Happier community, less hot heads, less fights, less micro-managing and policing! See?

When you've just been discussing the topic at hand using proper sentence and paragraph structures and punctuation (remember those ancient days?!) in the mature and civil manner with others in the thread but, because these noobs came here for the obvious sole purpose of just collecting porn for free and not to discuss and exchange information and opinions at all on a MESSAGEBOARD/DISCUSSION FORUM that was originally created for that main purpose, they somehow thought anything longer than "any nude pics or video clips on him?" or "Bump" if you're not posting copyrighted or even private material, you're OFF-TOPIC or actually in violation of the "unspoken rules" they have in mind. So they then feel "entitled" to order you around to move the discussion to PM? [Put yourself in my shoes for a minute and imagine you were discussing the day's topic in class with some classmates calmly and enthusiastically and then this new transferee came in LATE and proceeded to "nicely & politely" ask you all to STFU because he needed to cram for an exam for another class that day. So you exclaimed "WTF!" and then he doubles, triples, quadruples down on it. The teacher then AGREES WITH HIM and suspends you or the whole class just to add more WTFs and insult to wounds.] This is an act that is just as bad if not actually worse than cursing someone out in terms of the utter DISRESPECT for the equal rights of everyone to express themselves and their views. At least the cursers are honest, sincere and aren't disguising their disdain and real intent and they're not denying your own right to curse back or even just speak freely. This form of bullying is worse because it has the intention of DECEIT on top of the main offense not only on its main object of attack but mainly on the managers of the site whom they are actually USING by clever manipulation to then do their bidding for them. You are being controlled but you feel like you're just doing your jobs and the actual agrieved party is "the enemy." It's like a spit in everyone's drinks instead of in their faces. So then you pat yourselves and each other on the back for keeping the community "friendly" and fearful, but none the wiser in seeing the root causes and how rigid rules that do not consider the FULL CONTEXT and NUANCE of the issues and the REAL INTENTIONS of those involved behind their superficial words and actions only manage to create and maintain the APPEARANCE of peace and order while ironically disregarding the very purpose of real peace and order, which is not to foment resentment and fake "politeness" instead of engendering REAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER AND THEIR RIGHTS among the community members.

Let's be clear here, Mr. LPSG. With all due respect, those violations you cited are no-brainer, obvious ones that no one sane and rational would disagree with should not be acceptable in any community, so much so that they should go almost without stating. But for most real situations, stuff committed are nowhere near as bad or clear-cut like I just illustrated. At least as far as I am concerned.

This is, of course, apart from the heated arguments that are simply UNAVOIDABLE in any discussion forum and really aren't as much of a big deal as simply scrolling past them when they don't concern or interest you. Show me a "democratic" forum or system where everyone just agreed in perfect harmony and I'll show you that it's actually China or even North Korea, which would only be okay if you're into propaganda and not into providing freedom for the citizens. The bitching about bitching about bitching is actually not only unhelpful, hypocritical, tone-deaf and funny, they're also adding fuel to the fire that they claim to hate ever so dramatically because they believe in their "perfection" as if they lived in North Korea themselves and really believed it was paradise when they were just involved in some fight over dumb stuff recently. But there, they can add another pat on their own back, if that makes them feel better for a minute.

 

[deleted1000652]

Personally I think any form of harassment and bullying should be met with an overwhelming response. I think that they should be banned by IP Address and username so they have absolutely little chance at returning. I think it should be done on FIRST OFFENCE with no warning given. We don't know what people are dealing with outside the site. That one "fat" comment could be the final straw before they do something terrible to themselves or another person.

 

[xiujian]

"Performers?"

So like I discussed on email recently that I never got proper replies on, this issue is not as black-and-white as you all seem to simplistically think it is. How do you define "bullying" exactly for instance? Is it when you reply in self-defense to an UNPROVOKED bullying email cloaked in fake "politeness" by calling them out on their bullshit, hypocrisy and disrespect? There are some noobs here who act like they own the site and bully others into abiding by "their rules" through careful wordiing that avoids language that would technically not be considered bullying but are clearly intended to offend and bully others into submission, knowing full well that others would react honestly like any normal human being who is subjected to being degraded/humiliated publicly and that is to then use language that would be ironically considered "bullying" by the trigger-happy moderators who may have genuine frustration over the real aggressors and would just dismiss the case as just another "garden variety" offense without reading the full exchange and investigation of the conflict history that may span several threads over a long period of time? (Of course, I understand who wants to do that?! I wouldn't either. Lol)

But aren't passive-aggressive "signatures" or "instructions" to just post porn, click "like" and not to bother with (God forbid it just uses up an inch of digital space!) the simple yet gracious act of saying "THANK YOU" (you're not only NOT supposed to discuss on this discussion forum anymore, you're not to even "waste" precious bytes on expressions of gratitude on people whose generosity you came here solely for, wow!!! WTF are these "people?!" Absolute porn ad-dicks who can't afford it so they feel entitled to be given it for free?) that actually encourages a genuinely friendly and respectful community that makes sure generous members and contributors (of ideas and information also, not just porn) feel appreciated and not disrespected, which would then encourage others in a chain reaction to share instead of constantly being in fear if they might get banned and punished for their good deeds or even (gasp!) defending themselves or their opinions. Happier community, less hot heads, less fights, less micro-managing and policing! See?

When you've just been discussing the topic at hand using proper sentence and paragraph structures and punctuation (remember those ancient days?!) in the mature and civil manner with others in the thread but, because these noobs came here for the obvious sole purpose of just collecting porn for free and not to discuss and exchange information and opinions at all on a MESSAGEBOARD/DISCUSSION FORUM that was originally created for that main purpose, they somehow thought anything longer than "any nude pics or video clips on him?" or "Bump" if you're not posting copyrighted or even private material, you're OFF-TOPIC or actually in violation of the "unspoken rules" they have in mind. So they then feel "entitled" to order you around to move the discussion to PM? [Put yourself in my shoes for a minute and imagine you were discussing the day's topic in class with some classmates calmly and enthusiastically and then this new transferee came in LATE and proceeded to "nicely & politely" ask you all to STFU because he needed to cram for an exam for another class that day. So you exclaimed "WTF!" and then he doubles, triples, quadruples down on it. The teacher then AGREES WITH HIM and suspends you or the whole class just to add more WTFs and insult to wounds.] This is an act that is just as bad if not actually worse than cursing someone out in terms of the utter DISRESPECT for the equal rights of everyone to express themselves and their views. At least the cursers are honest, sincere and aren't disguising their disdain and real intent and they're not denying your own right to curse back or even just speak freely. This form of bullying is worse because it has the intention of DECEIT on top of the main offense not only on its main object of attack but mainly on the managers of the site whom they are actually USING by clever manipulation to then do their bidding for them. You are being controlled but you feel like you're just doing your jobs and the actual agrieved party is "the enemy." It's like a spit in everyone's drinks instead of in their faces. So then you pat yourselves and each other on the back for keeping the community "friendly" and fearful, but none the wiser in seeing the root causes and how rigid rules that do not consider the FULL CONTEXT and NUANCE of the issues and the REAL INTENTIONS of those involved behind their superficial words and actions only manage to create and maintain the APPEARANCE of peace and order while ironically disregarding the very purpose of real peace and order, which is not to foment resentment and fake "politeness" instead of engendering REAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER AND THEIR RIGHTS among the community members.

Let's be clear here, Mr. LPSG. With all due respect, those violations you cited are no-brainer, obvious ones that no one sane and rational would disagree with should not be acceptable in any community, so much so that they should go almost without stating. But for most real situations, stuff committed are nowhere near as bad or clear-cut like I just illustrated. At least as far as I am concerned.

This is, of course, apart from the heated arguments that are simply UNAVOIDABLE in any discussion forum and really aren't as much of a big deal as simply scrolling past them when they don't concern or interest you. Show me a "democratic" forum or system where everyone just agreed in perfect harmony and I'll show you that it's actually China or even North Korea, which would only be okay if you're into propaganda and not into providing freedom for the citizens. The bitching about bitching about bitching is actually not only unhelpful, hypocritical, tone-deaf and funny, they're also adding fuel to the fire that they claim to hate ever so dramatically because they believe in their "perfection" as if they lived in North Korea themselves and really believed it was paradise when they were just involved in some fight over dumb stuff recently. But there, they can add another pat on their own back, if that makes them feel better for a minute.

 

[Dark Horse]

This needed to be said. Thank you @Mr. LPSG!

 

[Lady Frost OBE]

Most welcome news

 

[sexy1234567]

100% support it.

 

[curtain_swoosh]

i support this however, how do experiences with celebs/performers or stories that are true but cant be proven right, be handled?
for example "he had sex with a few guys back in the day, so him saying he's straight is funny", or "we had sex a couple of times, he's definitely not straight".
or something like that. will those be handled as "outing" someone or as rumours ?

 

[LPSG Support]

i support this however, how do experiences with celebs/performers or stories that are true but cant be proven right, be handled?
for example "he had sex with a few guys back in the day, so him saying he's straight is funny", or "we had sex a couple of times, he's definitely not straight".
or something like that. will those be handled as "outing" someone or as rumours ?

I think this is a lot like personal information, real name, real instagram account etc. If it is common public knowledge then it's fair game. If it is gossip that very few people know of then it could be damaging and problematic.

Does that help?

 

[JayFantasi]

I see some of y'all are speaking on the very clear and continued racist acts that take place here.

Thank you for touching on those issues. I tend to steer clear of those posts because I know my responses can be venomous, and I'd rather just do my best not to focus on the f*ckery. Much love.

 

[deleted5700761]

Thank you for being an advocate for respect and kindness!

 

[billybones]

I’m not sure if you’re just trying to be Gumby I loved gynmby.

Are you vestigial, or actual owner? I’m asking Mr. LPSG.

 

[8Cylinder]

My goal has always been for LPSG to be a sexy, friendly, and enjoyable community. I want everyone to feel welcome here. I want your experience at LPSG to be as positive as possible. Hence, this message to all of you.

There is one part of LPSG that has bothered me since I took over. That is the nastiness shown towards some performers. While this behavior is a very small part of LPSG it can be so nasty it makes all of LPSG look bad. There are some threads and comments that are hard to read. I think this is unfair, unwarranted and something we'd like to change.

Starting today we are going to make LPSG a nicer place.

The first thing we'd like to do is reduce is the number of unnecessarily mean comments.
A mean comment is one that intends, is meant, to hurt someone.

Examples of Unnecessarily Mean Comments....

• They're/You're Ugly
• They're/You're Fat
• They're/You're skinny
• They're/You're dumb

These are just a few examples.
Instead of posting "Mr. LPSG's Ugly" Post "Mr. LPSG's Not My Type".

Better yet, if you don't have anything nice to say don't comment. There seems to be this desire by a few Members to make performers feel worse about themselves. If you are posting to simply try to attack a performer please don't.

How will Unnecessarily Mean Comments be Handled?

First, it is important to remember LPSG works on a reporting system. So as this type of content is reported our team will review it and make a decision.

If the post was made before today it will be edited (to remove the mean part) or deleted.
If the post is made after today....
1st time. The user will receive a friendly reminder from us.
2nd time. The user will receive a warning.
If the user continues this behavior, they may end up being banned, either temporarily or permanently.

Being unnecessarily mean adds no value to a thread or to LPSG; not to mention it indirectly impacts the people who may like that particular performer. Repeated mean comments are a form of bullying towards a performer or person and that isn't acceptable. Users who do this will also be banned from posting in that thread in the future.

CyberBullying
There are two key factors that determine whether someone is bullying someone else or not.
1. The intent to harm
2. Repeated acts of threat or aggressive behavior.
This too will not be allowed on LPSG.

What are some forms of such bullying?
Nasty and humiliating comments
Sharing photos for the sole purpose of ridiculing someone
False information that can be damaging to the person's reputation

We will also not allow
Doxxing.
Trying to out a person.
Threatening to contact their family.
Trying to cancel a person.
Trying to hurt a person's reputation.
Sharing social media photos of someone's family (namely parents).

These are all forms of abuse that we do not want on LPSG.

Anyone making posts with such content that are reported will receive a warning; multiple warnings could lead to a ban. Any user who receives a warning for this may be banned from replying to that thread again in the future.

Please note... We are not asking users to go on a mass reporting crusade. Mass reporting is very disruptive to our moderating team. In general, if you have a few posts to report try to limit it to 5. That allows us to get to the really important reports like illegal content, spam, and harmful links.

Let me assure you this is in no way an attempt to censor you. You can still speak your mind. You are free to say when a performer is not worth the money. You are free to post when you've been scammed. You can talk about being disappointed and underwhelmed by a performer.

We are just asking you to be a little more mindful about the posts you make. The less negativity found on LPSG the more enjoyable it will be for all of us.

My goal is to make LPSG a more enjoyable community for all LPSG Users. I believe these measures will be a huge step in the right direction.

If you have any comments or suggestions regarding this I'm all ears. Thank you for reading and being here!

Thanks to all in advance for your cooperation.
Mr. LPSG and the LPSG Team!

B r A v O o O o O o O... I'm sick to death of this new breed of cyber-bullying that is becoming more and more prevalent here. The more "liberal" and "unbigoted" people label themselves, the less tolerant of true diversity they become. I really detest labels. We are all a series of meters and guages, some pegged left, some pegged right, and a myriad of in-betweens across multiple measures. Labeling becomes bullying. This is shown better than ever In the commutation of LG - LGB - LGBT - LGBTQ - LGBTQI - LGBTQIA - LGBTQIA+... which is a completely unintentional but CLEAR sign of the abject failure of labels. It was seen over 30 years that you can never be inclusive without being exclusive the second you put a label on something. I vote for abolishment of labels, not of identity, but of labels.

 

[8Cylinder]

I see some of y'all are speaking on the very clear and continued racist acts that take place here.

Thank you for touching on those issues. I tend to steer clear of those posts because I know my responses can be venomous, and I'd rather just do my best not to focus on the f*ckery. Much love.

Perfectly stated. Be careful, my brother, not to jump to the conclusion "racism" or you are reversing the concept to unfairly accuse. It clearly exists. I really am bothered by the fact that we as an inclusive group of varied orientations can't seem to avoid victimizing each other even within this great concept of focus on fun and adoration of the male sex organ. It is, after all "Large Penis Support Group". That's where the focus should stay... support.

 

[SuprrHeroSucker]

And on the topic of racism, I.....a quality and contributing member on here for many years now.....just got my very 1st "unnecessarily mean" warning yesterday. Simply because I asked in a certain performer's thread to please stop it with the "adoration and lifting up of blatantly racist and discriminatory content creators". Or something like that.

To which I recieved a warning?!? And my message was deleted?!?

I then asked the moderator what was the unkind part; the person who purposely says they WILL ONLY meet with have sex with and record with white twinks and middle boys, as evidenced by their hundreds of videos.......or the people who ask our "divers and inclusive and welcoming community" to stop idolizing performers like that? To which, of course, I received no response.....

 

[8Cylinder]

And on the topic of racism, I.....a quality and contributing member on here for many years now.....just got my very 1st "unnecessarily mean" warning yesterday. Simply because I asked in a certain performer's thread to please stop it with the "adoration and lifting up of blatantly racist and discriminatory content creators". Or something like that.

To which I recieved a warning?!? And my message was deleted?!?

I then asked the moderator what was the unkind part; the person who purposely says they WILL ONLY meet with have sex with and record with white twinks and middle boys, as evidenced by their hundreds of videos.......or the people who ask our "divers and inclusive and welcoming community" to stop idolizing performers like that? To which, of course, I received no response.....

First off, thanks to Mr. LPSG for the incredible sacrifices running a site like this represents. Then, of course errors are made, and moderation becomes a matter of judgment, which varies by person.

That said, the label of racism has gone way overboard. There are content creators who exclusively produce Latin films, like "Latin Leche" (a favorite), and many others exclusively African/African-American, also those exclusively Asian, or Colombian, where do we stop?

I applaud diversity and inclusion, but how in the name of sanity does it make sense to dictate to content producers that they must have a quota system and/or include all racial flavors and skin tones? Isn't that a bit absurd? White twinks only? Not my flavor, but who is to say they can't be included in the scope of diversity? Hairy only? Athletic only? Chub only?

Here we go again. This really has to stop.

"as evidenced by their hundreds of videos..." Better cut everyone, and have a site with only non-offensive blank pages... but wait, way too white, right? Or way too black maybe, as then in dark mode with newer devices you might be "fetishizing".

For those of you who have never attempted to run, own or moderate a site, I invite you to create your own. The moment it becomes a bit more popular and acclaimed, you become a target at which darts, bullets, rotten tomatoes, insults, criticism and way too little praise are thrown.

Have a go... find out for yourself.

 

[8Cylinder]

While I agree with you, sticky, you have to respect culture differences. Living in Italy, I can say the very same thing they do, but a slightly different context can isolate you for life from a single statement in conversation. Some people here have suffered long-term abuse and see tart humor as the truth about themselves. You could truly be the straw that breaks their back and make them feel they don’t want this life. We’re all vastly different.

 

[bigboaster]

I will reiterate one of the points I made to Mr. LPSG via email because I think it's important.

I would hope the mods take the context of conversation into consideration when dealing with "being mean" in future? Just my two cents though. I often see toxic and rude comments stay up and then the people replying (in a heated way, understandably) get the warning and or ban? It doesn't seem super fair to me. But I don't know. Just something I hope the mods consider

 

[LPSG Support]

I keep getting told I'm being unnecessarily mean?... I'm Australian we're sarcastic as f**k seems like everyone else has a thin skin. There's nothing wrong with being mean. Stop being b*tchy and soft. Man up irs 2021.

Man up? You know that in itself is the problem.

Here is how I see the situation. People come to LPSG to enjoy themselves and maybe get off. Enjoy some nice content. Some sexy chat. Hopefully, they have a chub or a nice hard-on while on the site. When they come across a post that says
"GO FUCK YOURSELF"

"CAN YOU NOT READ"

"WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU"

"SHUT THE FUCK UP"

"Shut up tosser. I was merely pointing out the dedication to you thirsty bitches."

"go shove your head up your ass"

That isn't what I want on LPSG. If everybody posted like you how do you think this place would be? Not very enjoyable that is for sure.

You seem to like making others feel worse about themselves. Both LPSG users and performers. I don't that negativity has anything to do with you being Australian. All we are asking is to be a bit nicer and more mindful in your posts. Is that too much to ask?