no pun intended :smile: I'm a woman, and I'm very attracted to a man who has previously told me that he is "too big" for most condoms. I'm over 40 and haven't had intercourse in a while, so I'm feeling a little trepidation over the prospect of getting with this man. Don't want it to be an ordeal for either of us. Any suggestions other than tons of lube? This is all wishful thinking, of course...but he really makes me hot.