I didn't realize a forum like this existed until I ran a Google search today on Tongkat Ali at work! Needless to say I was simultaneously tickled and horrified. It was a post by Dongalong in January of '07 that made me want to join the site. I'm only 8" and despite the caution of 9- and 10-inch swingers, I still wouldn't mind being bigger. The problem is, I'm already on the edge of 'freaksville' with all the insatiable bottoms that wanna be stuffed relentlessly and unmercifully. That ain't my style. I'm black, I'm gay, and I love big white cock. So there, I said it.