Don't know how much support I need but,
I swear I thought I would have broken my wife in by now. She is the only girl I have been with who has ever complained about my size, and doesn't want sex for more than like 20 mins, have to take it slow and easy the whole time, and forget throwing her legs up to my shoulders. I mean we have been together for over 10 years and we do have sex often, less now than 10 years ago. But I swear the novelty of hearing a girl say "oh god easy baby", "no its too deep your in my stomach", "I already came 2x you can finish, I'm getting sore" it starts to fade. I mean why can't a girl just saddle up and go to town, or lay back and just get hammered every once in awhile. Worst part I'm not massive, I'm just entering the "large" classification.
Hey everyone look, it's another thread that should be titled BLAME THE WOMAN!!!
You don't need support, this ISN'T the Large Misogynistic Penis Support Group.
First off, your wife ISN'T A TRAINED SEAL, you don't get to "Break Her In." She's a living, breathing person that you made the decision to marry. Remember, you choose to marry the woman who is, and I quote, "She is the only girl I have been with who has ever complained about my size, and doesn't want sex for more than like 20 mins."
So out of the plethora of women you've been with, you consciously decided to marry the one who couldn't take it.
That's on you.
You also don't recognise her as an adult, to you, she's just a girl. You allude to her as a girl 3 times during your rant and only acknowledge her as your wife once. She isn't your property.
I can just imagine if your wife posted this thread about you, here's what it would say:
I need help. More than 10 years ago I married my husband. He is wonderful, beautiful and a great provider but, mentally, he's a boy and he's a lousy lover. I swear I thought I would have learned by now. I am the only woman he has been with that can't go balls to the wall with him (his words). He's about 7 1/2 - 8 when fully hard. He knew that when we married and while the sex is good, after 10 years of the exact same thing, he still doesn't get it. I can only tell him "oh god easy baby" or "no, it's too deep your in my stomach" or I already came (which sometimes I lie about because it's just to onerous to deal with) you can finish" or "I'm getting sore" so many times AND HE STILL DOESN'T GET IT. Nothing changes with him.
I mean, when does a boy grow up to be a man?
He still thinks that by jamming it in and causing pain, that's sex.
He has so many other, wonderful traits and he makes me laugh when I am needing a pick me up. But when it comes to sex, he's still that boy who thinks that pain and sex is the same thing.
Can someone help me please?
Distressed Housewife in Port St Lucie
*****Also, while the OP does acknowledge that he is new, I wonder if this is just another trolling type post that I may have fallen for.*****
Sklar