New Member with issues.

cheezy

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Hi Everyone.


I joined this group out of curiousity, and for informational reasons. I was a virgin when i got married, so was my wife. Sex seems fine, although she doesn't seem overly interested in my penis like I am with her body. She doesn't touch me too much, and from time to time has made little comments to make me think that she thinks I am small. I know she doesn't look at porn. Of coarse she has heard jokes on TV about big 12" penises. So I was wondering, if I posted a pic, could someone tell me where I stand? Small medium large? Also, are some women not into touching/ kissing/ sucking a penis too much? Thanks!!


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Hi There,

I don't believe that something is wrong in your mariagge, as far as your story goes. My girlfriend is not that much in to my body as i am in to her either, and yes i'm well endowed. The main reason is because men and women tick differently. Girls wanted to be seduced, they care about intimicy and attention. And when you whip it out, it's bound to make her make yokes about it. Why?, she wants other sorts of attention. Most women don't know that penis yokes can hurt men. Most women don't see penisses the same way we do. So using your penis to dangle from the ceiling will not impress her that much so to speak. (Believe me, i tried!) So try to be more self-confident!
 
geitjeshoeder said:
Hi There,

I don't believe that something is wrong in your mariagge, as far as your story goes. My girlfriend is not that much in to my body as i am in to her either, and yes i'm well endowed. The main reason is because men and women tick differently. Girls wanted to be seduced, they care about intimicy and attention. And when you whip it out, it's bound to make her make yokes about it. Why?, she wants other sorts of attention. Most women don't know that penis yokes can hurt men. Most women don't see penisses the same way we do. So using your penis to dangle from the ceiling will not impress her that much so to speak. (Believe me, i tried!) So try to be more self-confident!
Agree with Geitje. I don't see a need to post your penis for a group's approval. (Now, we absolutely do enjoy penis sightings but maybe you might hold off until you feel a bit more confident). Try the intimacy and attention route first. And have you talked to her about her feelings on the subject? That's an important step. Plus, penises aren't the only things than can bring pleasure....
 
Some girls aren't into cock very much. If she's young and inexperienced, its likely she'll be less than enthusiastic and even scared of cock...think its 'icky' etc.

Whatever size your cock, any 'good' girl, good in the bedroom sense at least, should be mad for it and slobbering all over it. I've yet to find this and my next victim is going to have big boobies...I feel like it.

Maybe with time your wife will get freaky on your love stick, takes practice though...sex practice is always a good thing ;)

If you were enthusiastic and her and rubbed your face all over her pussy that might help her, dunno if you do that already. The technique to making a girl cum with oral is to just open your mouth, roll out your tongue and use your neck muscles to rub your tongue all over her clit, going crazy with tongue flickings and suckings, then flick your tongue really fast if you can. If you use your finger/s at the same time that's a help too.

Works for me, even if it does only make her grab my cock and shove it inside her...I only get a bj if theres a condom on me... :(

NB: There's always a condom on me, just I would like to have a bj without one...
 
I think I am probably average, maybee a little more. measures at 7 long and 5 around. I dunno. Just kinda seems like she expected more. She doesn't want to have sex too often either. I think it is alot psychological, but she has a hard time with an o sometimes. On our honeymoon, we had sex 3-4 times a day. and she had an O 3-4 times each session. Mucho better back then. Seems like she is more interested in bieng pleasured than giving pleasure. I was thinking that maybee I did not meet up to her ideals.