Hello all. This site was recommended to me by a woman I met on a dating site, so I thought I would check it out. So far everyone seems nice, so I think I'll hang around for a bit. By the numbers, I am 4 soft, 7.5 hard (little over 6 around). At my largest I was a tad over 8", that was 4 years ago and 30 pounds lighter than I am now (I do hope to get back there, I have lost 30lbs since February and am still going strong).