savagesdawg: I too am a new member tonight but have been a lurker for a while. Reading incognito's introduction, I would swear that based on the description, other than the measurements, he was describing me. I am 6.5x6 soft and 8.5x7 erect. I too am married and share the same views with regards to same sex male encounters, although I will admit, I have been sucked off more than once by a man, and truly enjoyed it. I have always felt that I did not belong in the big man's category, and seemingly look for confirmation constantly. This site has actually been real beneficial since I stumbled across it. In addition, although I consider my self completely straight, I seem to have an obsession with the penis in general. Maybe my interest is strictly comparison. I have always wanted to be bigger, but have never really pursued any methods to attempt it. Ok, I have rambled on long enough. Looking forward to being a member.