New On Prep - Would Like To Hear Your Opinions!

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Hey all,

since some weeks I am taking prep. I started taking it since i am always really afraid of getting sick or being exposed to dangerous situations. Let's just say, I like to know that i am "safe".

But I also do enjoy bareback sex, swallowing cum etc. Even before taking prep, i never swallowed anyone except my boyfriends. I know that it is considered nearly to no risk for getting HIV, but I still did not do it.

So, since I am taking prep now daily, I am starting to feel comfortable. I had some dates already again, did not do anything I did not do before... and I am wondering, how did any of you approach this? Did you just let it go all at once, or did you take baby steps?

This might sound weird to some, but I would just love to hear your ideas, opinions and experiences on it. Thanks guys :)
 
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Personally, after I went on PrEP I marked my calendar and the counted down the days until I could breed and get bred. When the day came I found a couple online; we flip fucked and I took both their loads. The point of going on PrEP for me was to bareback.

Nothing is completely safe. It’s just a way of mitigating and managing risk.
 

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Yeah PreP is for HIV, you still have to protect yourself from STD's and that's with condoms.
Yes, PreP seems to go one of two ways; it's used by gay men who are terrified of catching HIV or it's used by gay/bi men as a license to do whatever the fuck they want without thinking of the consequences of other STIs.

Quite bizarre.
 

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Thank you guys for your honest opinions about it all. I am really trying to figure out how i am approaching it all now.

I think that i want to let go my fear of swallowing cum. I love it too much and even though it never was a big problem for transmitting HIV before, I feel safer to do it now.
Fucking bareback is another step.. as a bottom, it is something I love of course. But still, it is personal, the chances of transmitting all others STIs are huge and it should not be my ticket to bareback sex with everyone i ever meet...

I hope someone can feel me in my situation. It is tempting, but it should not make me worry-free in my opinion..
 
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Thank you guys for your honest opinions about it all. I am really trying to figure out how i am approaching it all now.

I think that i want to let go my fear of swallowing cum. I love it too much and even though it never was a big problem for transmitting HIV before, I feel safer to do it now.
Fucking bareback is another step.. as a bottom, it is something I love of course. But still, it is personal, the chances of transmitting all others STIs are huge and it should not be my ticket to bareback sex with everyone i ever meet...

I hope someone can feel me in my situation. It is tempting, but it should not make me worry-free in my opinion..
Spit or swallow, don't let it wallow