New relationship and this site

[dolfette]

it always does.

 

[Lou Pole]

and do you think it's wrong for a man to want to enlarge his penis?
because from what i've learned from this site(and the world for that matter) is that there is no such thing as too big,or big enough.

I think men should do what they need to do to make themselves more confident, happy, secure, etc. But there IS such a thing as too big, whether it be a penis or biceps or breasts. (Carrot Top comes to mind for some inexplicable reason that will forever haunt me.) At some point in life, you work with what you have.

And I agree with the above posts about working out -- nothing beats a great stomach. Plus, a tight flat stomach makes your penis look bigger.

 

[B_crackoff]

I am so thankful that TheBoyfriend doesn't want to enlarge his penis! He's so clueless about stuff like that I had to explain it to him what a penis pump was when we went to the toy store together. He was not interested. I feel like I dodged a bullet.

I totally agree! If a guy wants to physically improve himself, he should be focusing his attention on his abs, chest, deltoids, pecs, lats, glutes, and hamstrings.

Now that's incredibly sexist for you! I bet you've got some cellulite! Accept him as he is:wink::wink::wink:.

Gyms are a waste of a narcissists time.

Get out there, clear graffiti off walls, provide free rubbish clearance, gardening, park maintenance for the sick, elderly & public good!

Get a mangle & physically wash your clothes yourselves, & grow your own crops! That'd help the environment, lower your bills & do all the cardiovascular you could ever need, & takes the same time as a few hours in the gym.

I know people who drive 2 miles to a gym to run for half an hour. Run there, run back, job done, more efficient.

Gym users - lazy narcissists.

I'm that without using a gym!:biggrin1:

 

[petite]

but what if he did want to enlarge? is that a bad thing?
and do you think it's wrong for a man to want to enlarge his penis?
because from what i've learned from this site(and the world for that matter) is that there is no such thing as too big,or big enough.

We must not be reading the same website.

I'll say it. IT CAN BE TOO BIG.

If he told me he wanted to enlarge his penis then we would have a fight on our hands. I would fight dirty too, because I would feel like I have just cause. I never fight dirty. I'm talking mysteriously sabotaged equipment and a boycott on touching his penis until he came to his senses. I'm not the type of woman who withholds sex because of an argument, but this would be The Exception. I would not tolerate that nonsense.

I mean, there are the deeper issues AlteredEgo brought up about the change in his personality that would make him feel the need to boost his ego and what it would be like being with someone who is insecure about something like that. Those things would seriously and negatively affect our relationship. But I'm really just talking about sex.

I adore him. I practically worship the ground he walks on, which he unfortunately knows. I go to extreme lengths (Ha!) to do things in bed with him that I would do and have done in bed with other men, because I feel like he's worth it and he deserves the same attention, even though it does require a lot more effort with him. I love him.

If he suddenly became so inconsiderate and blind to the amount of effort I put forth to give him the same sexual experiences that other men have and told me he wanted to make things even more difficult for me because he has some insane need to enlarge his ego?

I would be mad. Very very mad. And all of my extraordinary efforts in the bedroom dept would come to a screeching halt.

Now that's incredibly sexist for you! I bet you've got some cellulite! Accept him as he is:wink::wink::wink:.

It's really hard for a ~100 lb woman to have cellulite, but I do have more wrinkles than him because I am actually older than him.

And I'm lucky. He's already buff. :tongue:

There's a gym at the office! Lucky lucky me!

Great post, Crackoff!

 

[B_crackoff]

It's actually really hard for a ~100 lb woman to have cellulite, but I do have more wrinkles than him because I am actually older than him.

And I'm lucky. He's already buff. :tongue:

Stop drinking alcohol, have botox. Put on weight, it'll stretch the skin.Lol.

 

[KTF40]

Sadly, the problem with pumping iron to get a defined body is that its (almost) a full time job!

Whereas if I want a big penis...I just have to get an erection. Which takes a few seconds. Versus several hours daily of iron pumping in order to get a toned / ripped body.

:redface:

Several hours daily of pumping iron to get ripped/toned? If you know what you're doing, you only need like 30min max a day. And the reality is getting ripped starts in the kitchen, not the gym.

Besides going to the gym you actually see results. I did PE for around 3 months and other than being slightly larger flaccid, I saw no results. 3 months in the gym and you will see a difference.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

I'll say it. IT CAN BE TOO BIG.

I'll second that.

Here's Exhibit A

(don't click on it on a full stomach)

Extreme penis modification

I'm a big fan of the PE community but it's like a lot of things guys get into--starting garage bands, bodybuilding, customizing cars--initially in order to impress girls and winds up becoming an obsession with a life on its own.

The 1990s saw guys getting phalloplasty, much of it botched. Today guys are injecting SILICONE!!! in their dicks!

The next fad will probably be guys injecting [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][FONT=Verdana,][FONT=Verdana,]Restylane into their dicks.

Facial filler used for penile girth enhancement

gewalt! Stop the madness!
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but I do have more wrinkles than him because I am actually older than him.
!

coo-coo ka-choo, mrs robinson

 

[Calboner]

Sadly, the problem with pumping iron to get a defined body is that its (almost) a full time job!

I guess it depends on what degree of definition you are seeking. I do four sessions of weight training of about 40 minutes' duration per week, and people who have commented seem to think my muscular definition quite good.

On the other hand, there is a guy that I see at the gym who has much better muscular definition than mine. I have figured out that he is there every weekday morning from five to eight o'clock. Fifteen hours a week may not be a full-time job, but it is certainly more time than I would ever spend on trying to make myself look good!

I adore him. I practically worship the ground he walks on, which he unfortunately knows. I go to extreme lengths (Ha!) to do things in bed with him that I would do and have done in bed with other men, because I feel like he's worth it and he deserves the same attention, even though it does require a lot more effort with him. I love him.

I don't remember ever wanting to say this to a woman whom I have never seen before, but: God damn, Petite, you're a hottie!

 

[petite]

Just now, talking to TheBoyfriend:

"I just wrote on LPSG about how I'd be mad if you wanted to enlarge your penis."

"I just want a little more width."

"What!!!"

"I'm just teasing you."

Stop drinking alcohol, have botox. Put on weight, it'll stretch the skin.Lol.

Oh, I am a woman. I have my secret little methods of fighting off Father Time. Trust me. :wink:

coo-coo ka-choo, mrs robinson

:tongue: Yeah, I've gotten a lot of that since we started dating.

I don't remember ever wanting to say this to a woman whom I have never seen before, but: God damn, Petite, you're a hottie!

How sweet! Thank you! :kiss:

 

[B_crackoff]

Oh, I am a woman. I have my secret little methods of fighting off Father Time. Trust me. :wink:

God, not another bastard perving over you!:biggrin1:

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

:tongue: Yeah, I've gotten a lot of that since we started dating.

well please don't take it the wrong way.

i'm a big fan of older woman/younger man relationships :wink:

 

[petite]

God, not another bastard perving over you!:biggrin1:

If anyone was a bastard, it would be Father Time!

well please don't take it the wrong way.

i'm a big fan of older woman/younger man relationships :wink:

I am too! :biggrin1:

It's my first one, but I like it! I've only had experience with older men before.

 

[mrbreasticles]

Thank you everyone for your responses it was interesting to read how each woman here dealt with it differently, although I do feel the thread is going a little off topic.

One poster was ether being purposefully obtuse or I was really not clear in my original post but what I was curious to read about was not "how many dates it took before you to had to tell a boyfriend about all the sites you have ever visited in you life" but rather if, or how, you would tell somebody you were in a long term relationship with.

I guess I figured there were two possible routes. One is to divulge the fact you come here and face the possible emotional minefield, or to determine discretion is the better part of valor and just be desecrate about your membership and admiration of the members here.

I think in the long run, it would be better for the boyfriend/husband to know; just as a means of getting to know and understand one another better. I think it might be a bit of a shocker at first and might bruise his ego but if it is part of your sexual fantasies and he loves you and you love him I'm sure it would turn out in the end. Would you prefer the same courtesy in return? [not rhetorical, an actual question]

I am actually a guy that does like a SPH during sex play a lot of the time. At one time I did have real size issues and would not have been able to handle SPH but I have come to terms with those issues and I am actually very happy with my body. I know I am average sized (on the large side even) and that my wife absolutely loves my penis the way it is. We both just like to have fun from time to time with SPH just like we do with lite BDSM. We both know it is just games and if ether of us were not into it we would not do it. In fact there are days (like everyone has) where I'm not feeling as confident and I will ask her not to play those games and she is more than happy to oblige and to comfort me. Most of the time though it is just a bit of extra spice.

So, after that long winded note I guess what I'm trying to say is that at one point of my life I would have been hurt if my wife was visiting and admiring the members of this site. Now a days though I would not mind at all. Most days it would actually excite me and on other days I would be be indifferent about it. Hence I can see the reason for both of the choices the women have made here.

 

[dolfette]

obtuse?

at what point are you supposed to declare everywhere you go and everyone you talk to? it's a silly idea!

this place is no different to me than any of the other boards i enjoy posting on and my private reading matter is no more his business than mine is his.

emotional minefield? only if you date insecure emotional cripples or bigots. it's just a message board. i talk about my sexuality here.

i think the whole idea of being expected to confess it as though it's a sin is just plain stupid.

what else? should i shamefully admit the size of every dildo i ever wanked with?

 

[B_crackoff]

what else? should i shamefully admit the size of every dildo i ever wanked with?

Now you've brought it up!

Also the size & power of the motor

Like one fitted to a modified chainsaw.

Or a Boeing 747.:biggrin1:

 

[dolfette]

Now you've brought it up!

Also the size & power of the motor

Like one fitted to a modified chainsaw.

Or a Boeing 747.:biggrin1:

jackhammer, baybee!

 

[Stretch]

^^^vrooommm...vrooommm...vrooommm!!!

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

jackhammer, baybee!

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[AlteredEgo]

I guess I figured there were two possible routes. One is to divulge the fact you come here and face the possible emotional minefield, or to determine discretion is the better part of valor and just be desecrate about your membership and admiration of the members here.

Is "desecrate" supposed to be "discrete"? Because that's really weird.

Additionally, this paragraph tells us you're projecting. I suppose that's natural, but try for a moment to remove your own prejudices while reading our answers.

Dolfette's question to you was legitimate. Your own bias makes membership here a big deal. Try for a moment to "pretend" that it could be very normal and unremarkable to be a member here, and to visit and participate often. You'd then have a perspective more similar to mine or Dolfette's. What I didn't tell you is why my husband knew about this place before we even started dating. He used to be a member at measurection.com, a site where most of the membership are concerned about having a small penis, or about a partner who does. Everyone there knew when I joined her because I found the link to this site there, and originally posted with the same user-name. Otherwise, I probably wouldn't have brought it up. I wouldn't have been hiding it, it's just not something that would have come up unless I thought he'd like to read something here. He's never been privy to the web-building sites I visit, or the military spouse support group, or the knitting community I sometimes check out, and he probably couldn't name my favorite podcasts, and I listen to those (with headphones) in his presence.

It's really just not important to everyone. It may be a big deal to you, but then maybe you're still a little more wrapped up in your penis insecurities than you think.

 

[Enid]

Is "desecrate" supposed to be "discrete"? Because that's really weird.

I think he meant "discreet". :dunno:

Hypothetically if I were to date a man without a larger penis I would not tell him I came here. I guess I'd just delete my account.