I think he meant "discreet". :dunno:
Hypothetically if I were to date a man without a larger penis I would not tell him I came here. I guess I'd just delete my account.
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I think he meant "discreet". :dunno:
Hypothetically if I were to date a man without a larger penis I would not tell him I came here. I guess I'd just delete my account.
i'm a big fan of older woman/younger man relationships
exactly.Dolfette's question to you was legitimate. Your own bias makes membership here a big deal. Try for a moment to "pretend" that it could be very normal and unremarkable to be a member here, and to visit and participate often. You'd then have a perspective more similar to mine or Dolfette's.
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It's really just not important to everyone. It may be a big deal to you, but then maybe you're still a little more wrapped up in your penis insecurities than you think.
and would he stop talking to women or looking at porn with bigger boobs than yours? :tongue:I guess I'd just delete my account.
and would he stop talking to women or looking at porn with bigger boobs than yours? :tongue:
if i was going to look at pics, how would that be different to a guy looking at porn? if i was going to talk about sex, how would that be different to talking about sex with my friends?
it's just not that big a deal.
I think in the long run, it would be better for the boyfriend/husband to know; just as a means of getting to know and understand one another better. I think it might be a bit of a shocker at first and might bruise his ego but if it is part of your sexual fantasies and he loves you and you love him I'm sure it would turn out in the end. Would you prefer the same courtesy in return? [not rhetorical, an actual question]
i think the whole idea of being expected to confess it as though it's a sin is just plain stupid.
I think it's pretty obvious to see why any guy with an average/small penis would be concerned if he realized his partner was visiting this site regularly.
I don't think the porn comparison is a good comparison. There's tons of reasons for guys to visit porn. I think one of the major ones is our sex drive is just too high and we need a release somewhere. Porn is an easy way to get off without cheating. And if you were going to talk about sex with friends, you just happen to go talk at the site dedicated to huge cocks instead of the hundreds of other ones around the internet?
I think it's pretty obvious to see why any guy with an average/small penis would be concerned if he realised his partner was visiting this site regularly.
Yeah but dolfette... don't you know? Men NEED sex and therefore porn to release (hopefully not on the keyboard) the tension. For women it's optional and they should consider the bf's feelings.so...whould he confess to or stop watching any porn with bigger tits/tighter cunts/tighter buns than me? should i be ''concerned''?
do you think that women don't need some wank inspiration? looking at dicks here is EXACTLY the same as guys looking at porn.
the only difference is that it's assumed women should be cool with the perfect bodied porn stars. and we should. fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. so why should we give big dicked porn or chat for the sake of his feelings?
it's the 21st century. women are allowed to be interested in sex too.
so...whould he confess to or stop watching any porn with bigger tits/tighter cunts/tighter buns than me? should i be ''concerned''?
do you think that women don't need some wank inspiration? looking at dicks here is EXACTLY the same as guys looking at porn.
the only difference is that it's assumed women should be cool with the perfect bodied porn stars. and we should. fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. so why should we give big dicked porn or chat for the sake of his feelings?
it's the 21st century. women are allowed to be interested in sex too.
boohoo etc!Yeah but dolfette... don't you know? Men NEED sex and therefore porn to release (hopefully not on the keyboard) the tension. For women it's optional and they should consider the bf's feelings.
i don't agree with that at all. unless he was posting in the enlargement section about how much he wished i'd plastic up, why would i imagine that? just because there's a section on the board...it's a big board with a hell of a lot of sections in it.There's a difference between watching porn with women with large breasts, although I wouldn't appreciate it if he told me he specifically watched porn with women who have larger breasts than me because that would be unnecessarily mean. If I accidentally discovered that he's regularly visiting a website where he can talk with thousands of real life large breasted women where there are sections on breast enlargement with techniques and methods. Just watching big breasted porn seems like it's only sexual enjoyment. Visiting a website for big breasted women with an area for breast enlargement implies that he's either wishing to replace me or that he wants that I would or could change my own body. I think there's a difference there.
i don't agree with that at all. unless he was posting in the enlargement section about how much he wished i'd plastic up, why would i imagine that? just because there's a section on the board...it's a big board with a hell of a lot of sections in it.
that's like saying he shouldn't walk into a library because he knows that some of the books would be upsetting to me.
Not sure what you meant here. Do you mean I am projecting the fact that this is more than just another site to visit on the internet and thus should not be treated differently as any other you may visit? If so that is an interesting point and I did not give that view as much thought but I did give it some. Yes, perhaps it was my past experience that biases me to this view but it is actually because BOTH of those sites you mention that I know for quite a few it is not. I think anyone that visits ether of those sites knows that, hence why I asked the question in the first place. Yes, this site can be viewed like any other you are right and if so then excellent why would you say anything? But if you don't feel that way or you think/know your significant other wouldn't feel that way then would you say anything? I guess that is a clearer version of my original question.this paragraph tells us you're projecting
Yes AlteredEgo, discrete. The other one is weird. Thanks for the catch and replies.
na, pet. that's just my personality. i'm an abrasive kinda girl.Dolfette I can see you point your first reply just came across as obtuse. Your following ones came across as a little abrasive but I guess given some posters here it pays to be so.
so...whould he confess to or stop watching any porn with bigger tits/tighter cunts/tighter buns than me? should i be ''concerned''?
do you think that women don't need some wank inspiration? looking at dicks here is EXACTLY the same as guys looking at porn.
the only difference is that it's assumed women should be cool with the perfect bodied porn stars. and we should. fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. so why should we give big dicked porn or chat for the sake of his feelings?
it's the 21st century. women are allowed to be interested in sex too.