New Study About Male Bisexuality

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Not sure what's so difficult to understand about the attraction to both women and men. Sexuality is a spectrum. You might be on one end or the other, or perhaps somewhere in the middle. That being said, I don't like labels. I like what I like.
 

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Speaking very broadly, it is clear to me that men are much more sexual than women, that men spend more time thinking about sex, that men are more inclined to enjoy "no strings attached" sex than are women, that men are more inclined to use sex workers than are women, and so on.

For men, it's all about the orgasm. Women tend to have a much broader interest that, typically, begins with a solid relationship.

This being the case, it seems perfectly reasonable that men are more likely than women to at least consider bisexual activities as simply another way to reach an orgasm. Since women in general are not as orgasm-driven as men are, they are also less likely to be bisexual.
 

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Speaking very broadly, it is clear to me that men are much more sexual than women, that men spend more time thinking about sex, that men are more inclined to enjoy "no strings attached" sex than are women, that men are more inclined to use sex workers than are women, and so on.

For men, it's all about the orgasm. Women tend to have a much broader interest that, typically, begins with a solid relationship.

This being the case, it seems perfectly reasonable that men are more likely than women to at least consider bisexual activities as simply another way to reach an orgasm. Since women in general are not as orgasm-driven as men are, they are also less likely to be bisexual.
You have not met some of the women I know. Their capacity for sex and multiple orgasms makes men look a lot of men look like virgin Irish spinsters.
 

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You have not met some of the women I know. Their capacity for sex and multiple orgasms makes men look a lot of men look like virgin Irish spinsters.

For sure, such women exist, just as there are asexual men out there.

But, as a general rule, I think my descriptions hold up well.
 

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I watch girl-on-girl, guy-on-girl, and guy-on-guy porn. I get aroused every single time.

I have sex with women and men. I get aroused every single time.

I'm bisexual and I exist, period. I don't need a study to tell me that.
 

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Not sure what's so difficult to understand about the attraction to both women and men. Sexuality is a spectrum. You might be on one end or the other, or perhaps somewhere in the middle. That being said, I don't like labels. I like what I like.


Exactly.

And it's like I love HEAD. I love getting head.
What's unnatural about that.

I WAY prefer head from a woman. But sometimes I care more about the head than the genitalial of who's sucking me.
 

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Speaking very broadly, it is clear to me that men are much more sexual than women, that men spend more time thinking about sex, that men are more inclined to enjoy "no strings attached" sex than are women, that men are more inclined to use sex workers than are women, and so on.

For men, it's all about the orgasm. Women tend to have a much broader interest that, typically, begins with a solid relationship.

This being the case, it seems perfectly reasonable that men are more likely than women to at least consider bisexual activities as simply another way to reach an orgasm. Since women in general are not as orgasm-driven as men are, they are also less likely to be bisexual.
I guess it's the way nature intended things to be. Woman are nurturing , solely sexual to get pregnant and men must spread there seed for procreation. Men's needs sexually I think are greater and if with another guy well so be it. I'm not saying all men but once mans sexuality is unleashed it needs to be satisfied. A stiff cock has no conscience. I think in nature some animals are also bi. Human sexuality is very complex IMO.
 

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When we say "most men are bisexual" depending on our lived experiences and our friends' experiences , the men that define themselves as 100% heterosexual get really mad. Even on this website, a site dedicated to male form, penis, masculinity.

I'd say that wherever you are in the world, the male culture is bisexual. But not openly. It is bisexual but homophobic at the same time. Don't ask me how it is possible at the same time. It is. The culture encourages male-male close friendships and sexuality but also discourages it from being public. Because if it becomes public it would dynamite the world system based on heterosexual family ideal. What percent of married women know that their husbands regularly or irregularly hook up with men? I guess not much. Maybe not even 1 %.

Because when they find out about such a thing they won't feel sympathetic towards their husbands' homosexual encounters. They will feel cheated on. They will want to divorce them.

If women were very understanding about their husbands' homosexual encounters, world would have been a much happier place where bisexual men built public friendships with their gay or bisexual sex buddies. A passionate sex encounter between two men can never replace that between a woman and man, and, vice versa. Sex with a man and sex with a woman are completely different things.

But the hypocrisy of the world system is depressing many married bisexual men. They are living double lives. They build weak friendships with their male sex buddies in fear of being outed to family and friends. There is something really wrong with this world.

I personally have a weakness for married bisexual men. And all I want from them is just sex and friendship. But what you get at the end of the day is just a one night stand. Because they fear of everyone and everything. I mean, I just want your dick and cum :D Why would I bother ruining your life? Why would I do that?

It is very difficult to be buddies with bisex men. :(

They are always full of drama, hiding, lying, etc. That's sad. Both for them, for us and for the women they are married with.

I, personally define myself also bisexual. But I am way more interested in men than women. I find all features of the male body fascinating since my childhood. But I rarely find a woman extremely attractive. I can say that I am living a gay life for around 15 years now. From time to time, I find a woman very attractive. But I'd just hook up with her. Nothing else. Because, emotionally I am inclined to attach to men. It has always been this way.
 
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It is very difficult to be buddies with bisex men. :(

They are always full of drama, hiding, lying, etc. That's sad. Both for them, for us and for the women they are married with.

I'm not sure that's exclusive to bisexual men, but rather any man or woman who is cheating on their partner for some ass on the side.
 
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When we say "most men are bisexual" depending on our lived experiences and our friends' experiences , the men that define themselves as 100% heterosexual get really mad. Even on this website, a site dedicated to male form, penis, masculinity.

I'd say that wherever you are in the world, the male culture is bisexual. But not openly. It is bisexual but homophobic at the same time. Don't ask me how it is possible at the same time. It is. The culture encourages male-male close friendships and sexuality but also discourages it from being public. Because if it becomes public it would dynamite the world system based on heterosexual family ideal. What percent of married women know that their husbands regularly or irregularly hook up with men? I guess not much. Maybe not even 1 %.

Because when they find out about such a thing they won't feel sympathetic towards their husbands' homosexual encounters. They will feel cheated on. They will want to divorce them.

If women were very understanding about their husbands' homosexual encounters, world would have been a much happier place where bisexual men built public friendships with their gay or bisexual sex buddies. A passionate sex encounter between two men can never replace that between a woman and man, and, vice versa. Sex with a man and sex with a woman are completely different things.

But the hypocrisy of the world system is depressing many married bisexual men. They are living double lives. They build weak friendships with their male sex buddies in fear of being outed to family and friends. There is something really wrong with this world.

I personally have a weakness for married bisexual men. And all I want from them is just sex and friendship. But what you get at the end of the day is just a one night stand. Because they fear of everyone and everything. I mean, I just want your dick and cum :D Why would I bother ruining your life? Why would I do that?

It is very difficult to be buddies with bisex men. :(

They are always full of drama, hiding, lying, etc. That's sad. Both for them, for us and for the women they are married with.

I, personally define myself also bisexual. But I am way more interested in men than women. I find all features of the male body fascinating since my childhood. But I rarely find a woman extremely attractive. I can say that I am living a gay life for around 15 years now. From time to time, I find a woman very attractive. But I'd just hook up with her. Nothing else. Because, emotionally I am inclined to attach to men. It has always been this way.
Yes, I think this would be a huge step in the right direction on the path to the reality of the world we live in.
 
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I watch girl-on-girl, guy-on-girl, and guy-on-guy porn. I get aroused every single time.

I have sex with women and men. I get aroused every single time.

I'm bisexual and I exist, period. I don't need a study to tell me that.

I love your philospohy!
 

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I watch girl-on-girl, guy-on-girl, and guy-on-guy porn. I get aroused every single time.

I have sex with women and men. I get aroused every single time.

I'm bisexual and I exist, period. I don't need a study to tell me that.

But we do need a study to tell us more of us exist than we previously realized. I always said heterosexual people are in the minority. Social conditioning just makes us pretend otherwise.
 

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But we do need a study to tell us more of us exist than we previously realized. I always said heterosexual people are in the minority. Social conditioning just makes us pretend otherwise.
To the study's credit, they did dispel a 2005 finding that bisexuality doesn't exist based on the lack of equal arousal from the study participants.
 
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