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I'm not sure what the name of this dildo is
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Nah, you said it...

Yep, I did...and I meant it as well, LOL. That is until you got me wondering. As I said, I got this item from my husband who said it was called BAM. The lying bastard decieved me. I checked for a picture online and it isn't BAM at all...not even the same color! I still have no idea what this one is called. I will have a long (no pun intended) discussion with him tonight :)
 

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Originally posted by Dr. Dilznick@Mar 24 2005, 07:12 AM
Yeah it's black. It did strike me as a bit odd that a white couple would... er. Nevermind.

So what did he have to say?
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He actually thought it was BAM as well. Anyway, he picked this one up at an adult store in Copenhagen a few years ago. It is not one of the realistic looking kinds. I still haven't found a picture of it although it is pretty non-descript except for the size. By the way, the color really doesn't make a difference to me. It was just the first thing that was obviously different between the two dildos.
 

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Originally posted by Kat@Feb 16 2005, 12:50 PM
Good question.  Once I'm warmed up I don't have any trouble taking all of him.  I remember the first time we had sex...way back when I was 19.  I had only been with a couple of other guys who were average in size.  When I saw my dh's penis I thought "No way is that going to fit".  But it did!  I distinctly remember thinking what an unbelievable feeling.  From dh's perspective I was unique.  He is 10 years older than I am and had a lot of sexual partners before me.  Of them, only one...a woman in her mid-forties could take all of him.  He actually couldn't believe that I didn't have any issues with his size (especially the thickness).  Since then I realized that I am very large (vagina wise) and definetely prefer being filled as much as possible.  The deepest I normally take (with a extra large dildo) is about 12 inches.  The thickest I usually take is around 9 inches (again, a dildo).
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Kat, this is very interesting as I am probably in the opposite situation from you. My husband had only 2 other women before me and the number of times he went to bed with them combined he could probably count on his hands. Even though I am several years younger than him, I had quite a few more sexual moments, from 1-night stands (not by my choice) to relationships that lasted over a year. I never was into size; I had 1 guy who was just under 10" but most were around average. My gyno says I am larger than normal vagina-wise, but not exceptionally large or unusual compared to other women she sees. I guess I just stretch alot! lol : )

My husband, on the other hand, didn't experience his first time with a woman until he was 26 (almost my age now). He's actually quite good-looking, has a great personality, and is very sweet and considerate, but he is very self-conscious and a bit shy. Put it all together and you had a guy more into sports and his career than in dating, socializing, asking women and girls out, etc. He told me early in our relationship while we were still dating that he was somewhat nervous because he had very few times alone with any women, let alone one he found extremely attractive. Believe it nor, I thought it might be bs at first, maybe even a line to get me to bed, but it soon became obvious just from kissing that he wasn't lying.

At first I thought it was a bit strange, but since we've been together he tells me about friends and co-workers in similar situations to him (being virgins or having had very few sexual encounters). In talking more with my girlfriends, they suspect that there are more guys out there who aren't self-confident studs who can casually saunter up to a woman and ask her out with the intention of bedding her on the 1st night or something closer to that. I think guys just hide it better because they're embarassed in the presence of friends who brag about doing this girl, sleeping with this woman, etc.

At first, I though maybe his sexual inexperience was related to his size (he's just under 13"), now I realize it definitely has more to do with his personality and the way he had been since he was young (always hanging out with guys into sports and school). I'm very happy with him, actually prefer having dated and being married with someone I can TEACH as opposed to a guy who thinks he's Superman in bed.
 

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Originally posted by Kat@Feb 16 2005, 12:50 PM
Good question.  Once I'm warmed up I don't have any trouble taking all of him.  I remember the first time we had sex...way back when I was 19.  I had only been with a couple of other guys who were average in size.  When I saw my dh's penis I thought "No way is that going to fit".  But it did!  I distinctly remember thinking what an unbelievable feeling.  From dh's perspective I was unique.  He is 10 years older than I am and had a lot of sexual partners before me.  Of them, only one...a woman in her mid-forties could take all of him.  He actually couldn't believe that I didn't have any issues with his size (especially the thickness).  Since then I realized that I am very large (vagina wise) and definetely prefer being filled as much as possible.  The deepest I normally take (with a extra large dildo) is about 12 inches.  The thickest I usually take is around 9 inches (again, a dildo).

Wow, Kat, 9 inches is INCREDIBLE!!

My husband is pretty thin for a guy his size, and I once tried a vibrator that was 8" thick and found it painful. I think I have more problems with width than length, so maybe it's lucky my husband's extra inches are length-wise and not width-wise. I may have to measure his width to get an accurate measurement now that you've piqued my curiosity (I've measured his length a few times, but never width).
 

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Originally posted by SexyJean@Apr 5 2005, 06:17 PM

Wow, Kat, 9 inches is INCREDIBLE!!

My husband is pretty thin for a guy his size, and I once tried a vibrator that was 8" thick and found it painful. I think I have more problems with width than length, so maybe it's lucky my husband's extra inches are length-wise and not width-wise. I may have to measure his width to get an accurate measurement now that you've piqued my curiosity (I've measured his length a few times, but never width).

Yeah, 9 is pretty thick. However my husbands penis is 8 so it's not much larger than him. I've never tried anything larger than 9 and don't plan to. It seems to me that it is just at my limit of comfort. I really love the feel of that thickness but any larger would get into the pain category and I'm NOT into pain :) Interestingly, I have only measured my husband twice. The first was shortly after we started going out (over 22 years ago) and the second just this past year in response to some questions about whether I was telling the truth (or knew how to use a ruler/measuring tape!).

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Originally posted by Kat+Apr 6 2005, 03:53 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Kat &#064; Apr 6 2005, 03:53 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-SexyJean@Apr 5 2005, 06:17 PM

Wow, Kat, 9 inches is INCREDIBLE&#33;&#33; 

My husband is pretty thin for a guy his size, and I once tried a vibrator that was 8" thick and found it painful.  I think I have more problems with width than length, so maybe it&#39;s lucky my husband&#39;s extra inches are length-wise and not width-wise.  I may have to measure his width to get an accurate measurement now that you&#39;ve piqued my curiosity (I&#39;ve measured his length a few times, but never width).

Yeah, 9 is pretty thick. However my husbands penis is 8 so it&#39;s not much larger than him. I&#39;ve never tried anything larger than 9 and don&#39;t plan to. It seems to me that it is just at my limit of comfort. I really love the feel of that thickness but any larger would get into the pain category and I&#39;m NOT into pain :) Interestingly, I have only measured my husband twice. The first was shortly after we started going out (over 22 years ago) and the second just this past year in response to some questions about whether I was telling the truth (or knew how to use a ruler/measuring tape&#33;).

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Kat,--You&#39;ve got me nodding my head up and down in agreement to everything you write. You and I are the same age and about the same size. I&#39;m one inch taller. I joke to people (and it&#39;s not really funny) that I wear my A-cup bra simply for decoration. The Creator, in His or Her generosity, made up for my lack of breast size by giving me an enormous vagina, and enough pubic hair for 10 women,--which my bf won&#39;t allow me to remove,--but that story is for another post. I couldn&#39;t have put it any better when you described that amazing sensation of being stretched and filled. When I worked up enough courage to tell my gyno that I&#39;ve been inserting a jar 12.5 in. around, after graduating from a wine bottle (because I haven&#39;t been able to find a dildo thick enough), she gave me one of those "Are you some kind of a nut?" looks and proceeded to tell me that there weren&#39;t too many sensory nerve endings in deep, and that I already had the largest vagina she has come across in her practice. I kept quiet, but I&#39;m convinced that she&#39;s wrong,--and I don&#39;t think it&#39;s all my imagination. Whether it&#39;s my bf&#39;s cock, or that big jar, it&#39;s a feeling like no other to have my tissues rubbed and stretched over and over. It&#39;s like having a terrible itch that you can&#39;t stop scratching. My bf is now only able to perform every other day, so on the inbetween days, when I&#39;m feeling really horny, I&#39;ll use that jar and a vibrator. As in your situation, the love came first. The huge cock is a bonus,--like finding a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. We&#39;ve tried doggy style, but it doesn&#39;t do as much for me as face to face. I love the intimacy of being on my back and able to look at him. I have learned that by grabbing the part of his cock that is still outside my body, exactly how deep he is in. When he has entered 12 and a bit,(where according to my gyno I shouldn&#39;t be able to feel very much), I get so excited that I think I go into one of those altered states that people talk about. When we start with our various movements, my bf describes me as "going bananas". He lifts my legs straight up, wraps an arm around each thigh, then proceeds to pump my legs either alternately, or together, back and forth, sometimes while he&#39;s swaying from side to side. He doesn&#39;t even need to do any thrusting. There&#39;s enough movement to drive me crazy, especially when I start to grind my hips. The orgasms start, sometimes one after another, until we&#39;re wiped out. Even after he has come, it feels wonderful to have his soft cock inside. One of the thoughts that often comes to me while I&#39;m lying there afterwards in his arms, is how fantastically lucky I am to have found a man who is so right for me in all other ways besides sex, and then for him to have a cock that must be one in several hundred thousand, the very size I need being as large as I am. The chances of two such people meeting has me shaking my head in wonder. Does a thought like that ever occur to you Kat? I really believe that I&#39;m being rewarded for suffering through a lifetime of living with control freaks, first my parents and then my ex-husband, all three of them demanding perfection. But everybody&#39;s got a story to tell. That&#39;s mine. And that&#39;s what makes this site so unique and fascinating. Kat, the next time you&#39;re in a grocery store, I don&#39;t want you getting any ideas when you spot those giant zucchinis. Keep smiling,--Alexia
 

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Originally posted by sexialexia@Apr 6 2005, 04:17 PM
I joke to people (and it&#39;s not really funny) that I wear my A-cup bra simply for decoration. The Creator, in His or Her generosity, made up for my lack of breast size by giving me an enormous vagina, and enough pubic hair for 10 women

This is really interesting.... My soon to be ex wife is also very flat chested, has lots of pubic hair (she is not otherwise very hairy), and a very large vagina. My sexual experiences were very, very limited before I met her, so I didn&#39;t have a lot of points of comparison. It did always seem to me that she was very roomy. I also only ever "bottomed out" in her once or twice, despite having a more than average length cock (7"). I remember when she first got a diaphragm and it seemed to be friggin&#39; HUGE&#33;

BTW, I still think there is nothing sexier than really really small breasts. I love ALL breasts, but the smallest ones give me a special thrill&#33;
 
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orionsword57: .....there is nothing sexier than really really small breasts....

While I was very partial to my wife&#39;s large breasts, it is still the responsiveness of a woman&#39;s nipples that are by far the sexiest thing for me. As an old friend of mine put it, anything over one cubic mouthful is superfluous.
 

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Originally posted by orionsword57@Apr 7 2005, 08:40 AM
.....there is nothing sexier than really really small breasts....

While I was very partial to my wife&#39;s large breasts, it is still the responsiveness of a woman&#39;s nipples that are by far the sexiest thing for me. As an old friend of mine put it, anything over one cubic mouthful is superfluous.
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No, no, no .... its anything more than a handfull is a waste ...

... and I&#39;ve got big hands. :D

LapDog :p
 
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hung_big: I know I&#39;m way late hun, but WELCOME KAT&#33;&#33;

I hope you enjoy this site, as much as I have. Continue to post and intergrate into the wonderful family known as LPSG.

Again, Welcome

Chris *hugz and kisses*
 

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One of the thoughts that often comes to me while I&#39;m lying there afterwards in his arms, is how fantastically lucky I am to have found a man who is so right for me in all other ways besides sex, and then for him to have a cock that must be one in several hundred thousand, the very size I need being as large as I am. The chances of two such people meeting has me shaking my head in wonder. Does a thought like that ever occur to you Kat?

I definitely have the same thoughts. However, I don&#39;t think I would have ever realized how much I like huge cocks unless I met my husband. Before him I still had great sex but the feeling of being filled by his cock added a completely new dimension (pun intended&#33;).

Kat, the next time you&#39;re in a grocery store, I don&#39;t want you getting any ideas when you spot those giant zucchinis.

Now this made me really laugh&#33;&#33;&#33; Early in our relationship, when my husband and I would go to the grocery store I would hold up objects (such as zucchinis or those really big summer sausages) and give him a wink. We would crack up. It would also get me hot a bothered just thinking about him. Sometimes we wouldn&#39;t even have the groceries unpacked before we were screwing our brains out, LOL&#33;

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One of the thoughts that often comes to me while I&#39;m lying there afterwards in his arms, is how fantastically lucky I am to have found a man who is so right for me in all other ways besides sex, and then for him to have a cock that must be one in several hundred thousand, the very size I need being as large as I am. The chances of two such people meeting has me shaking my head in wonder. Does a thought like that ever occur to you Kat?

I definitely have the same thoughts. However, I don&#39;t think I would have ever realized how much I like huge cocks unless I met my husband. Before him I still had great sex but the feeling of being filled by his cock added a completely new dimension (pun intended&#33;).

Kat, the next time you&#39;re in a grocery store, I don&#39;t want you getting any ideas when you spot those giant zucchinis.

Now this made me really laugh&#33;&#33;&#33; Early in our relationship, when my husband and I would go to the grocery store I would hold up objects (such as zucchinis or those really big summer sausages) and give him a wink. We would crack up. It would also get me hot a bothered just thinking about him. Sometimes we wouldn&#39;t even have the groceries unpacked before we were screwing our brains out, LOL&#33;

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Kat,--If your husband was doing the driving on the way home from the grocery store, you were probably distracting him with your hand inside his pants playing with his big summer sausage. And when you were screwing your brains out before you unpacked the groceries, and you had an orgasm, did you yell out "THE FROZEN ORANGE JUICE IS THAWING&#33;&#33; THE ICECREAM IS MELTING&#33;&#33; Alexia
 

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Originally posted by Kat@Apr 12 2005, 10:54 AM
Now this made me really laugh&#33;&#33;&#33; Early in our relationship, when my husband and I would go to the grocery store I would hold up objects (such as zucchinis or those really big summer sausages) and give him a wink. We would crack up. It would also get me hot a bothered just thinking about him. Sometimes we wouldn&#39;t even have the groceries unpacked before we were screwing our brains out, LOL&#33; Kat
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Kat, YOU made ME laugh with this one&#33;&#33;

I was in the same situation with my husband one time. As I&#39;ve said, he&#39;s very long but at the same time a bit naive about things sexual. He had picked some smaller, greener zucchinis once when we had split the shopping list. I went over to fruits and veggies to see if he was finished getting our greens. He had picked a few zucchinis, all a bit under-ripe and average-sized.

Anyway, I couldn&#39;t resist: I got one of the LONGEST zucchinis -- it was over a foot long -- and deadpanned, "No, I prefer this one&#33;&#33;" :D

He was a bit slow and said: "I think this one is better", referring to the smaller less-ripe one.

I insisted: "No, I want the LARGER ones....trust me&#33;" :D

Him: "I think you&#39;re making a mistake...I think this one is gonna be fresher and better in a few days..."

So I went up to him and put the zucchini right up to his face and said "No, I definitely prefer the LARGER one&#33;&#33;" and was giggling up and down.

He looked at me and finally got it, and cracked up. "You&#39;ve got a dirty mind, you know that?" he said.

He&#39;s right &#33;&#33;&#33; :evilgrin: