Hi lixergud69, welcome to the site. It's a great place to hang out, but it really isn't a dating site. Some people that are together have met here but that's not the main focus. There is actually a small percentage of women compared to men, maybe 1-2%.
Don't let the boys scare you off. Some of them have a fetish where they want to turn straight guys gay. Most of the people here are good people, fun, horny, and accepting of others.
Hope you have a great time,
Hun