Hi, i'm new here. kinda nervous about participating. Always, somewhat, had an insecurity about myself. But it seems that i may be pretty decently "equipped". My step bro used to poke fun at me when i was younger. He was huge, like 8.75x6+. made me feel tiny at 7.25x5.25. soft I was like 3" at best. in the words of Emmit "I'm a grower not a shower" What confused me was that women would like...rave and say i was perfect which kinda made me think "is she lying?":33: I developed my oral, pelvic, and "hand" techniques to make up for it. am i "average"?? and what is "big"... what is "adequate"???