how long will it take before you can be penetrated without pain: from a finger to a 7.5 tool
so far i adore cock and am good, slutty cocksucker ...
but I was always reluctant to do the anal
and now my new friend is very much wishing that he can take me from behind...
i started with a finger and miniplug- but i am still soo tight... who long will it takes to get "ready"
Just my 2 cents, but after a lifetime of being a versatile bottom, the key to bottoming without pain is learning how to relax the sphincter muscle before anything goes in your ass. I was taught this “trick” by a drag queen friend over 45 years ago and it worked for me like a charm ever since.
It’s a good idea to clean yourself out with an enema before your first time, or else there is the potential for things to get messy. I think it is always a good idea for the top to rim your hole to get you in the mood (so long as he knows what he is doing). The top should then lube up his cock with a nice slick coating of lube. He should place his cock against your hole but do not try to enter until you give him the “go ahead”.
As soon as you feel the head of his cock against your hole, tell him to proceed slowly. At the same time you feel him start to press against your hole, immediately “push down” on your sphincter muscle like you are trying to pass the “biggest turd” you’ve ever tried to pass in your life. This is why an enema for your first time is a good idea. You must continue to Push down on the sphincter muscle while the top continues to push into your hole slowly! This will allow the muscle to relax and the top to get all the way in. There should not be any pain, but be aware that if this is your first time, it’s going to be REALLY uncomfortable, and afterward, especially the next day, you may be sore down there. Think about a time when you passed a really big turd. It was probably very uncomfortable, and that is probably how you are going to feel the first time you bottom. After the initial discomfort, things start to get easier and more comfortable and then you can really start having fun.
As far as the enema, once you get good at relaxing/controlling your sphincter muscle, all you will need to do to prepare to bottom is to take a shower and clean your hole real well, and you should be good to go. I hope this information helps.
