Hi ans welcome. I am a 46 yo hetro male in San Diego, I have been called big but I do not think so, I have had sex with quite a few women that say it hurts after we have made love and i've even had some limp. I haven't measured it properly but it is thin and maybe 8 - 8.5 inches, I will work on gathering the measurements. I found this site while looking for a particular video clip and it seems like a place that I can chat and see if I am a normal or abnormal male.