Newly discovered bicurious married man needs advice

[niseazz8823]

I am married and am the most attracted to women, however one time i was masturbating with a girl on my webcam with a very nice ass and body her face was beautiful,. Then she revealed a not too big but not small hard cock. I wanted to get grossed out and block her but seeing her cock so hard from looking at me turned me on. From that point on I've had an obsession with nice hard cocks and the thought of stroking one and sucking til it explodes turns me on as much as the thought of a girl does. I find myself watching mmf threesomes bisexual porn. The thought of a nice cock pleasing my wife while touching him is the ultimate turn on. on't ever want anal done to me but oral everything turns me on. How do I go about my next step closer to the real thing? I wanna start by cam2cam with someone then maybe a physical encounter but I'm too shy and embarrassed and don't wanna upset my wife I would love to convince her into joining Any advice?

 

[Cecil56]

If 'she" had a cock, then she was not a she. My favorite type of cock!

 

[niseazz8823]

If 'she" had a cock, then she was not a she. My favorite type of cock!

yeah i guess you're right. reguardless of the technical term it's my favorite type of cock too

 

[shard38]

Well, talk to your wife first. Does she know about you camming with girls and is she alright with that? If not, it would be a pretty big leap towards an mmf threesome, I think.

 

[niseazz8823]

Well, talk to your wife first. Does she know about you camming with girls and is she alright with that? If not, it would be a pretty big leap towards an mmf threesome, I think.

yeah she knows i cam sometimes and she cams with guys but won't ever do it around me. Idk why she won't I wish she would sometime or i wish i could see a video of her camming with another guy to see what all she does with them. we've fantasized together about adding a guy in the bedroom and it makes both of us very turned on but i cant get her to go the next step

 

[shard38]

Would she be OK with you camming with another guy. That would be a first step towards it.

 

[niseazz8823]

Would she be OK with you camming with another guy. That would be a first step towards it.

she told me the thought of it turns her on but uncomfortable watching me cam with another guy. idk shes really hard to figure out

 

[niseazz8823]

e let me make one video of her masturbating to a guy stroking his cock on a prerecorded video on a porn site while she gave me a blowjob

 

[shard38]

But is she willing to listen to your experiences with camming to another men? It might ease her into the idea. If not, it depends on the arrangements you both have about playing outside of your marriage.

 

[niseazz8823]

But is she willing to listen to your experiences with camming to another men? It might ease her into the idea. If not, it depends on the arrangements you both have about playing outside of your marriage.

i'm a little too embarrassed to go into detail once i'm not turned on and released my sexual tension

 

[shard38]

Why are you embarrassed?

 

[niseazz8823]

Why are you embarrassed?

cause i get extremly turned on by things that is too graphic and weird for a straight male to get turned on by its hard to explain i guess

 

[Parts Guy]

Don’t waste your time in a virtual or fantasy world of cams, go out and find the real thing and enjoy. Sexuality is fluid.

 

[shard38]

I think @Parts Guy is right. You’re overthinking this. There’s no such thing as “too graphic”. There’s only two rules: nobody gets hurt and you like it.

 

[niseazz8823]

Don’t waste your time in a virtual or fantasy world of cams, go out and find the real thing and enjoy. Sexuality is fluid.

Thank you for the advice

 

[1Cody]

Definitely come right out and say what you mean while speaking to your wife. Let her know before hand of your fantasy to suck dick, also let her know you don't really want to get fucked. For the sake of no misunderstandings, you have to be on the same page. Porn, and on-line things give you fantasy and anonymity. Real life experiences are a bit difference. Beings you are webcamming and your wife is not, your perspective will be different than hers. Proceed with caution and common sense. Believe me, once this Genie is out of the bottle you are not putting it back in until your curiosity is satisfied.

 

[Allen67]

Have you considered you and your wife cramming together with another guy? Start there and then maybe you could introduce bringing the other guy into a threesome

 

[latinluva]

yeah she knows i cam sometimes and she cams with guys but won't ever do it around me. Idk why she won't I wish she would sometime or i wish i could see a video of her camming with another guy to see what all she does with them. we've fantasized together about adding a guy in the bedroom and it makes both of us very turned on but i cant get her to go the next step

All you can do is introduce her to your fantasies. The rest is up to her, don't be pushy. My wife and I talk about it often. She's even told me,"I'll do it for you." I told her,"I don't want you to do it for me. Do it because you want it, that's what would turn me on." So she said if she decides she wants it, she'll let me know. I think we're getting close. We've been to gloryholes, folsom fair and nude resorts...but that's about it.