Newly married but still think about big cocks

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*sigh* So I've always had a curiosity and fascination with big thick cocks. Yum. Not attracted to the body attached. Like at all. Nothing is a turn off more to me than men kissing and the thought of a romantic relationship with a man grosses me out. I'm happily married. Love my wife. She's gorgeous. Still... I can't help but fantasize about dropping to my knees and sliding a thick 8"+ cock into my mouth until it explodes down my throat. I only had the opportunity to do it once. The guy's cock was maybe 7", at the most, but rather thick, and I didnt swallow. So in a sense, I feel like I never had the opportunity to really satisfy this fascination. I don't know what to do :worried: all I want is a cock that makes me feel inferior pulsing in my mouth.

Anyone else feel this way?
 
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Similar feelings here. I enjoy making out with a guy and appreciate other aspects of his body but have no desire for a relationship with another man. It’s uust not for me. Usually once I cum, I’m ready to get out of there and back home to my wife.
 
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*sigh* So I've always had a curiosity and fascination with big thick cocks. Yum. Not attracted to the body attached. Like at all. Nothing is a turn off more to me than men kissing and the thought of a romantic relationship with a man grosses me out. I'm happily married. Love my wife. She's gorgeous. Still... I can't help but fantasize about dropping to my knees and sliding a thick 8"+ cock into my mouth until it explodes down my throat. I only had the opportunity to do it once. The guy's cock was maybe 7", at the most, but rather thick, and I didnt swallow. So in a sense, I feel like I never had the opportunity to really satisfy this fascination. I don't know what to do :worried: all I want is a cock that makes me feel inferior pulsing in my mouth.

Anyone else feel this way?
I know a lot of guys who are married, have kids, and are quite happy with that life. Their emotional relationships are with women. They also, from time to time, enjoy the company of a guy. Sometimes it's someone they can 100% trust, and they only interact with that one person, while other times it is a random meet with no strings attached.

They don't identify as anything other than straight. If pressed, they would say there was some curiosity for play, but that is really as far as it goes. Sex with a man is about getting off with someone. So, getting blown, or sucking a dick, or some type of anal (but that's much rarer). Mostly, it's oral.

As I mentioned, I am just one person and I know of ..hmm, 20+ people? who are in your shoes. You are definitely not alone.

It sounds like you are more into being an oral submissive. Trust me, there are a lot of people out there looking for cocksuckers. It is up to you if you want to pursue that, but if you do, good luck! (and play safe)
 

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I know a lot of guys who are married, have kids, and are quite happy with that life. Their emotional relationships are with women. They also, from time to time, enjoy the company of a guy. Sometimes it's someone they can 100% trust, and they only interact with that one person, while other times it is a random meet with no strings attached.

They don't identify as anything other than straight. If pressed, they would say there was some curiosity for play, but that is really as far as it goes. Sex with a man is about getting off with someone. So, getting blown, or sucking a dick, or some type of anal (but that's much rarer). Mostly, it's oral.

As I mentioned, I am just one person and I know of ..hmm, 20+ people? who are in your shoes. You are definitely not alone.

It sounds like you are more into being an oral submissive. Trust me, there are a lot of people out there looking for cocksuckers. It is up to you if you want to pursue that, but if you do, good luck! (and play safe)

Hmmm. Well, due to my moral compass I doubt I would ever do anything about it so I guess that ship has sailed. I can't imagine ever bringing the desire up to my wife to get her approval. I guess time has a way of changing all things.
 
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do u think ur wife can handle this? if so, y not talk to her about it and see if you two could share a cock together and pull off a threesome or of the sort? being newly married, i would not advise you to go and start looking for random dicks to suck. marriage is for better or for worse right?

i think many guys think about this more than they care to admit. even myself, i still do, however in my relationship, my wife is fully aware of my bi-tendencies and is totally cool with it. makes for an easier life when your partner understands you and you have someone to share it with.

my advice: tread carefully but don't give up.
 

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I respect your feelings and desires. I guess my question is, do these feelings or will these feelings affect your happiness in marriage? There’s nothing wrong with them at all. I agree with marriedasian, that maybe the first but difficult option is to discuss with your wife. Letting her know you love her and you’re not gay, but have fantasies. Sex, sexual exploitation and love can be different. If that’s not an option, you can maybe experience once again privately. If then you realize, not for me, move on. If you decide you like it, explore with your wife. Just my thoughts.

I used to date women, now I don’t. But that’s just my own experience. Good luck with this! I hope you report back.
 
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Have had many str8? married friends, many want to get on their knees and suck or gag on cock, often stroking themselves during. Not unusual. I always say be careful,if you try it once and like it, always on your mind.
Reminded of the comment that often comes from both str8 and gay.

“ I am not so much worried about what I like to do with another guy, just who knows about it.”
 

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Jakeston, Speaking from experience. Married man here to a woman and have been for a long time. You have a part of you that needs and wants to be expressed. You can even describe it as a hunger. Trying to deny it or Using your moral compass to help you suppress your desire will not make it go away no matter how long you are married. The more you go without eating the hungrier you get which makes you a not happy person. Accept every part of who you are and take care of your needs. This is about you not your wife. She doesn't need to have to deal with it you do. You will be a better man if you do.