Newly Single Bi Guy Here

Johncuriousman

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Hello Everyone.

I’m glad a found this place. 40 y/o male. Editing this post because I thought creating a new thread to introduce myself was not a good idea.

I’ve been bisexual all of my life, but kept it deep in the closet. I recently got divorced and jumped in the dating pool. Perfect opportunity to see what’s out there in the male world.

I have been with guys in the past. In my high school days I actually had a boyfriend (secret boyfriend). I lost my virginity to him and tried a lot of things with him. We dated in secret all senior year. After him, I dated some girls and had two flings with men on and off.

My last year of college, I met my ex-wife and got married. Coming from a catholic family, I quickly repressed my urges and stayed free from male sex. I kept my urges in check with porn. I joined a couple of sites when the urges became too much. Talked to a couple of guys, one I got very close with. However, when it came time to meet them I chickened out. Never met them because I didn’t want to hurt my wife or get found out.

We eventually got divorced at the end of last year. Now I have the opportunity to see what’s out there and explore my bisexual urges with the right guy. I do still want to keep that part of my life a secret. It’s been over 15 years since I’ve been with a man, felt his touch, or his kiss. Hopefully I meet good people here to talk about what’s been repressed for years and make some friends.

Glad to be here. Drop me line.
J
 
Hey Man,

Similar situation here, bi all my life but really just coming to terms with it at 25. Haven't told a soul, besides my partners, but am also tired of living a "hidden" life. Currently working through therapy to help with the repressed feelings and guilt.

Best of luck and excited to follow your journey!
 
Similar story here as well. Knew I was bi early on. Had a relationship with a guy in my late teens, a secret from everyone else. Had a few long term relationships with women and a couple relationships with men in between but never came out officially until I was in my late 20s...even then only to a handful of close friends. Met my now ex wife and let her know that I was bisexual. We discussed open relationships from time to time but never went through with it. After a 10 year marriage we separated last year and I now am trying to navigate single life in my 40s as a divorced dad and a bisexual male. Agree this site and the people I have encountered here have been a great resource. Enjoy your next journey. Happy to chat and compare notes :)
 
Similar story here as well. Knew I was bi early on. Had a relationship with a guy in my late teens, a secret from everyone else. Had a few long term relationships with women and a couple relationships with men in between but never came out officially until I was in my late 20s...even then only to a handful of close friends. Met my now ex wife and let her know that I was bisexual. We discussed open relationships from time to time but never went through with it. After a 10 year marriage we separated last year and I now am trying to navigate single life in my 40s as a divorced dad and a bisexual male. Agree this site and the people I have encountered here have been a great resource. Enjoy your next journey. Happy to chat and compare notes :)
Hi, similar situation here. Now divorced bi dad here, 42 with one teenage son who lives with me navigating single life.