I just got married four weeks ago... and up until that point I was a virgin... Sex is freakin' awesome, and I'm so glad I waited. Even so, I've discovered from my wife... who is a little more experienced than I was... that I am very well endowed. My problem is this: I fit, but it's really tight... so much so that it's painful for her and sometimes for me as well. It doesn't seem to matter how wet or how well lubricated she is... I still seem to stretch her to the point of pain. I don't really know what to do about it... cause everything I've read says that sex should be painful and I hate that making love to my wife causes her pain (she puts up with it though cause she loves having sex with me... i don't think she ever had less than three orgasms while we were going at it... size does have benefits). Thanks for any advice.