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“Liking a clean hole” is kinda gross, evasive, condescending and just reflects hyper-sexuality or a willingness to sexually indulge with whoever. It doesn’t reflect attractions or passions or fluidity or preferences or where you are in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, relationship, commitment spectrum.

I know better than to expect much from porn performers. And I don’t think anyone has to share their dimensions publicly. I do however think inherently bi/pan people who live a bi/pan lifestyle have a responsibility to make sure that they’re never promoting hetero dominance, homo inferiority, non-homo superiority, gay insecurities. A decent amount couldn’t care less about that however. And he definitely messed that up by using “straight” and “gay4pay” as a marketing tool and as an ego shield and using his uncomfortable wife in a couple interviews. While internalized phobias and queer insecurities are still rampant among male queers, even in many out male queers. And there is a lot of general ignorance when it comes to understanding sexuality, dimensions, preferences, fluidity, traumas, psychology, the gender, sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, commitment spectrum.

We try to make everything sexy or political or end up saying silly and cringe-y shit like “liking a clean hole”. It’s evident Reese (if that’s actually him) and many of the folks who post here still have a ways to go. But at the end of the day, porn performers and sex workers are there for fantasy and something to get off to.
 
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He’s saying the same silly shit people say in their 20s: “I just like sex” or “I like a clean hole” and being generally really evasive. You’re better off just not saying anything if you’re about 40 and still saying stuff like that. There’s no self-reflection, no nuance, no willingness to divulge frustrations and sexual journeys or an understanding of the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. As I said, there’s a desire by some to keep everything “sexy” and to keep yourself looking good. But also as I said, people shouldn’t expect more from porn performers and sex workers. My only issues is the lack of acknowledging privilege, the desire to use “gays” for attention and income, the subtle promotion of internalized phobias and homo inferiority, the using of an uncomfortable wife. These patterns should no longer be promoted and hyped up and used as eroticism. Yet, it’s still something many “straight” and bi/pan presenting guys lean on. And it’s something more self-understanding and non insecure inherently bi/pan guys need to cal out.
 
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