Look, I really don't care what people here do. And I usually don't get involved in pointless fights like these. But the owner made a statement to the OP that he was spreading "bullshit lies", and that just seemed overly dismissive to me. I'm not a lawyer, so I don't assert how provable it is. But LPSG is a pretty public forum, so it doesn't seem hard for me to believe that someone could make a case that people saying "Can you DM me Nick's latest OF video" is tantamount to solicitation, with plenty of witnesses around.
And, to your point, it also wouldn't seem hard to me to claim that illegal distribution of copyright material for which the content creator expected to receive payment could easily surpass your stated figure of $2500.
To me, no one's dick is worth even potentially going to jail for, getting fined for, or whatever the penalty may be.
But again, go forth and live your lives.