When I first signed up here, my ID was "fantasize4men". I was just starting to face my same sex attraction, and still spent most of my time denying it.
Over the next year or so, the struggles and denial caused me to make some poor choices that ended up not only making my life difficult, but hurt others in the process. This why you will see me stressing honesty to others in relationships. There is no judging, just hoping that I can prevent others from making the same mistakes and heartache that I experienced.
When I started accepting (and consequently, liking) who I was, the old ID would remind me of the pain that I had caused. "Countryguy63" pretty much describes me with my birth year included.
ID's can definitely give the wrong impression. I noticed soon after changing, that the reactions of others towards me became much more open and friendly. I didn't change, but others first impression of me, based on my ID changed. I think they thought I was some sort of a closet pervert, and now they know I'm an open pervert :biggrin1: