I’mma be straightforward and then I’m going to let the Nico sh*t go hopefully forever. Nico simply comes off like they hate guys, and fine. Cis males are the only type of people they’ve publicly criticized. Cis male individuals are the only type of person Nico has been willing to name and criticize publicly. “White gays” are the only demo they’ve publicly shamed. “Gay” is the only identity they’ve publicly gone after. So, beyond just being cringe-y, narcissistic, leech-like and sometimes saying some ignorant stuff, Nico clearly has/had a lot of resentments towards cis males. It likely has to do with some traumas, abuse, insecurities, bullying, feeling ostracized, general struggles with their mental health, sexuality, fluidity, where they are in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. So, I get that. But I could never support someone who said so much, yes, harmful stuff and has never apologized for any of it. (And they were in their 30s, grown as hell and did it over the span of years). Yet, at the same time spent years milking their queerness for publicity, opportunity and validation and leaning on “gays” to maintain relevance.