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I met a woman from online tonight went back to her hotel room. she was older. sexy. she moaned a lot. It was going great, until about half way into it, i just lost my erection and couldn't get it back. I'm not sure why. I tried. She tried. Just couldn't get it going. It was embarrassing. Although i have theories. has anyone had this happen to them? I honestly can't remember the last time. It was such a bummer.
But this is ALL TRUE. I"m not making excuses. But i noticed things going downhill, then got into my head. Once I got into my head, i couldn't get it back and was a goner. What could have led to this decline? I noticed the following in my descent...
- First, she didnt say anything about my cock or size. which was unusual for me. It got me thinking and suddenly questioning myself.
- the hotel bed was too soft. i'm 6'1, 220 pounds. I kept sinking into the bed and couldn't get good positions. (i know this sounds like an excuse, but it's true. i couldn't get comfortable)
- it was a school night and i had an early rise. plus just being tired and stressed from work.
- i was/am dealing with a lot of stress from work and family issues. that resurfaced before i went to her room.
- she was submissive which sometimes they just lay there and don't respond... which is really boring and disappointing for me. I need that feedback and interaction to stimulate me mentally.
i know this all sounds like excuses, but i am trying to figure out how and why this happened. i don't want it to happen again. thanks!
But this is ALL TRUE. I"m not making excuses. But i noticed things going downhill, then got into my head. Once I got into my head, i couldn't get it back and was a goner. What could have led to this decline? I noticed the following in my descent...
- First, she didnt say anything about my cock or size. which was unusual for me. It got me thinking and suddenly questioning myself.
- the hotel bed was too soft. i'm 6'1, 220 pounds. I kept sinking into the bed and couldn't get good positions. (i know this sounds like an excuse, but it's true. i couldn't get comfortable)
- it was a school night and i had an early rise. plus just being tired and stressed from work.
- i was/am dealing with a lot of stress from work and family issues. that resurfaced before i went to her room.
- she was submissive which sometimes they just lay there and don't respond... which is really boring and disappointing for me. I need that feedback and interaction to stimulate me mentally.
i know this all sounds like excuses, but i am trying to figure out how and why this happened. i don't want it to happen again. thanks!