Anyone making comparisons to your natural body parts showing the way they naturally do is kind of an invalid comparison.
Absolutely not.
I just don't see the point of putting in nipple rings if they r such a secret, furthermore, i don't see the point of putting them in and then wearing a thin cottin shirt braless and you know everyone can see them and still claim you don't want the attention.
It's the same as my tattoo. I didn't put it there for your gaze. If I want you to see it, you won't have to ask. When I lift weights in tight pants and a loose shirt, the outline of my vulva and about half my tattoo can be seen every time I raise the bar over my head. The exposure is brief, caused by keeping the bar close to my body, and contact with my breasts. I do nothing to avoid the brief and repeated exposure, but I do nothing to cultivate it either. I'd be really put off if someone asked me to let them see more of the ink on my upper abdomen.
Sure, I could make sure not to let my breasts come into contact with the bar, but I'd rather get more out of a Tabata. Sure I could wear baggy pants, but I don't want to work out in baggy pants. Sure, I could wear an even longer or tighter shirt, but I don't want to. I prefer to workout in skin-tight capris or tiny shorts in a wicking material, and a slightly baggy cotton shirt that just barely comes down to my thighs when I'm standing straight. This is basically my uniform for exercise, and I have many, many reasons. All of my reasons come down to practicality and convenience for ME. They have nothing to do with anyone else's appreciation or notice, even though what I consider baggy (very loose on most of my body) still fits snugly over my breasts, and I'm aware that the wardrobe highlights my shapeliness, especially flattering my well-toned legs and backside, and exaggerating the difference in circumference between my hips and my bust. I'm fully aware of how I look. But it isn't specifically for anyone's gaze. It has everything to do with my experiences with both cardio and resistance training, with HIIT and endurance training, and what I have learned about what makes me do my best.
Similarly, when I leave my house everything I wear, from my hairstyle, to my glasses, from my earrings to my belt, from how much cleavage is or is not exposed, to how much of my limbs are covered or exposed is about my comfort, convenience, and confidence. I dress to feel my best, because when I look good, I feel good. My nipples are no longer pierced, but what people who wouldn't ever see me naked might think about my jewelry never once occurred to me. All I thought about was how pretty I thought it looked, and all the different kinds of accessories I could eventually wear. In retrospect, I think some of the jewelry might have been really obvious in some of my clothes, in some lighting. But I only checked myself out under one light before I went out.
The fact that you want her choices about modifying her body to be about you doesn't make it so. She is decorating her body, just as lingerie is decoration. If you haven't ever received special invitations to admire her lingerie, what makes you think her other private adornments have anything to do with you? She's not a fucking object for your pleasure, and doesn't make decisions based on your desire.
