Nipples don't get hard anymore?

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This is something that's been going on for a while but I never really cared much because it isn't an issue. I keep meaning to ask about it on here but haven't, and it just popped into my head so I thought I'd post about it real quick.

My nipples have always been (and continue to be) extremely sensitive. I can sometimes orgasm from having them licked and sucked on if the guy is good at it and patient enough.

Thing is, my nipples used to get rock-fucking-hard when they got played with, or when I was aroused in general... or when a stiff breeze blew by, someone brushed up against me, etcetera. They were very responsive.

For the last few years, though, they don't really get hard anymore. It still feels just as great to have them played with, but no matter how much attention they get, they don't get hard anymore. They do stiffen up a bit so as to not be completely soft, but I just sorta wonder why they don't really get glass-cutting-erect like they used to.
 

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maybe that's something that changes with age for some people. good question (i dunno).

tangent: do you find that it confuses people kinda? in my experience it seems like men think you're not aroused if your nipples aren't hard. mine go up and down a lot and are often not hard when i'm the most turned on, but i've found that some dudes think something's wrong. kinda frustrating.
 

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maybe that's something that changes with age for some people. good question (i dunno).

tangent: do you find that it confuses people kinda? in my experience it seems like men think you're not aroused if your nipples aren't hard. mine go up and down a lot and are often not hard when i'm the most turned on, but i've found that some dudes think something's wrong. kinda frustrating.

I haven't had anyone say anything to me about it yet, but I wonder sometimes if they are thinking about it.
 

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It might be similiar to what a guy faces as he ages. Our 'boners' (hee hee, I said boner) don't get as rigid or hard as they used too. Could be the same for a woman.
 
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May sound a bit silly, but when you are lightly tickled, touched. Say at your sides, ribcage, the touchy:) places. Do you have goosebumps pop up on your skin? Or when you hop from a warm shower to cool air, do they become hard then?
 

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It could be an age issue, related to hormones. My wife actually has one which stays erect and one which is inverted. I can coax the inverted one out if I work at it. If you are still enjoying orgasms and you are able to get wet as you used to, I am thinking just age and hormones. Though the other things, the smoking...could be an issue...
 
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I know smoking can cause health issues. But causing your nipples not to become hard???
 

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It appears your nipples were like mine. I could orgasm off them just alone. I haven't had any problems though. Is it truly an arousal problem? I mean, do they still get super hard when it's freezing cold outside and stuff?
 

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Thing is, my nipples used to get rock-fucking-hard when they got played with, or when I was aroused in general... or when a stiff breeze blew by, someone brushed up against me, etcetera. They were very responsive.

Maybe the temperature?

My seem to be effect by temp as well
but they do get "erect" randomly as well regardless of the temp
 

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Im having an issue with mine not getting hard at all and not sensitive anymore i used to be the same way my husband could get me really turned on when touching them. But its seems my isssue didnt start until after my fourth child i decided to try breast feeding with her but she wouldnt latch so i had to pump since then my nipples havent been the same now my husband thinks im not turned on by him anymore and its making our sex life awkward since he thinks its him when really its just whatever is going on with me