To quote the song..."How long has this been going on?" I am just now seeing this thread! NJQT,I admire your rapid fire wit, your fierce intelligence, your transparency, and your fire. not to mention those beautiful eyes of yours! I too am glad Wally started this thread. I truly hope and pray that your health will be restored and that you find the man of your dreams who can truly appreciate all that you have to offer, which is a whole lot!