This one can be slippery. I guess it depends on how you look at it. I have many Asian friends, but in general I don't find them sexually attractive. It has nothing to do with origin, it's more the body type that doesn't turn me on. My husband doesn't find black men attractive. I do. However, I think there is another component to what he feels. He's Cuban, and there are a lot of Cubans of his age who were raised to look down on people of color. In speaking to his mother, the Afro-Cubans were looked at as someone who polluted their purity as mostly white Europeans who came from Spain. So, in some cases, there is a racial aspect to it. I know my husband has been with a few black men, but in general it's not something he actively pursues, partially because it is ingrained in who he is. He's in his mid 50's now, and it can be difficult to put that aside. His mother will be 90 years old this year and I'm not going to change her way of thinking about anything. It's not worth trying. I figure if she can accept me as another of her sons, then that's great progress for someone in her generation.